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solidrecommendations t1_jaaf7m0 wrote

While this is true, if someone kindly asks me for money etc. and I don’t feel like helping, I say something like “sorry, not today, hope you have a good one.” 90% of the time folks say something like you too and it isn’t a big deal. The other 10% of the time they say nothing back which is also fine. I just hate treating people like they don’t exist.

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Baloncesto t1_jaae770 wrote

Taking a break from booze for a bit so feeling good. I've got lots of travel coming up and the potential for a new job, so lots of stuff on the horizon! And good weather soon, hopefully!

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Pipes_of_Pan t1_jaae3wj wrote

Reply to comment by joymarie21 in Things DC does really well by erichinnw

Amen. The difference between sitting in a line of cars around the block for five+ hours to get inspected vs. the four minutes it takes today is almost too much to believe. The DMV and inspection station have had a remarkable improvement and deserve a ton of credit.

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dcsnarkington t1_jaad7oy wrote

The city is actually composed of suburban edge cities (Rockville, Bethesda, Silver Spring, Fairfax, Arlington, Alexandria) surrounding the core city along and within the beltway.

If you wanted to you probably can live in one of those and spend your time driving around from strip mall to strip mall just like any other suburban American town.

Since you are new to a big city, and possibly unaccustomed to homelessness and possible crime, I'd probably stick to NW DC if I were you and trying to live in the city proper, which is what I would do since I hate the suburbs and I like walking to things.

I don't know what you look like, but it's highly likely you at some point that you are going to encounter some a-hole homeless person who is going to say or do some annoying such as follow you around, harass you or make a racist or off color remark to mess with you. Don't take it personally it happens to everyone, and it's more likely they chose to mess with you because they know they'd get away with it / get a rise out of you.

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lovindashow t1_jaad2hx wrote

Find your people! If you meet someone out and about whose humor and interests align with yours, then exchange numbers and find ways to meet their friends, too. When my partner moved here to live with me, it took about 8 months for him to find dudes that he wanted to watch football with and go to happy hours. And he found his people through a friend of a friend.

And it doesn't have to be one friend group. Make lots of friends! Not every friendship works out forever and you don't want to feel obligated to maintain a friendship if they didn't turn out to be who you thought they were.

And try new cuisines! Put it in your budget. Food is one of the best perks in this city.

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Kenearionlloyd t1_jaacj5c wrote

Reply to comment by layzie77 in Things DC does really well by erichinnw

DC born and bred, now living in Mt. Vernon. Working on an assignment in DC now and realize it is no longer my home. Grew up by RFK, DC General, old DC jail, Armory…. Well remember the East side West side beef! DC no longer feels like home.

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Jabroni_Joestar t1_jaac8tp wrote

Former rural American here. As others have said, you’re going to be approached by randos. Just don’t respond, and keep on walking. They won’t be agitated with you.

Understand that people won’t greet you when you pass them by on the street. It isn’t because they’re rude, but they’re usually just very busy and don’t have idle time. It’s totally normal to pass people and not even make eye contact.

It’s actually pretty easy to find things in common with people who live or work here. People are generally polite and you should also understand that there are some pretty rural people who commute here for work, so you don’t always see the same city type folks.

DC has a ton of green space and trees, and I’ve never felt like I need to escape.

Take advantage of the walkability and public transit here. Rural America is very car dependent, and it’s so liberating to be somewhere with multiple modes of transport.

Good luck and enjoy the experience.

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