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DCRealEstateAgent t1_j9lan64 wrote
Reply to comment by Unusual-Relief-9409 in Scared of traveling to Washington DC, how do I calm my anxiety? by Unusual-Relief-9409
DC has a crime map. Check that out. You can view what types of crime happen, it’s helpful. There isn’t a place to avoid though unfortunately. It’s permeated all areas.
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BackwardsAndInHeels t1_j9la9hg wrote
I'm certainly not here to discount your feelings... I will say that whatever conference it is has no interest in attendees being victims of crime. If you follow general safety rules, you will be fine.
Safe places to spend your free time include the countless museums, the National Mall, Arlington Cemetery, and if you can make time, the Old Town Alexandria waterfront and/or the Southwest waterfront.
I'm not from DC but I've always lived in places that rely a lot on tourism dollars. These cities will often make tourist safety a priority over resident needs.
If you can believe the city has a financial interest in keeping you safe, it may help.
puttinonthefoil t1_j9la5q8 wrote
Reply to comment by DCRealEstateAgent in Scared of traveling to Washington DC, how do I calm my anxiety? by Unusual-Relief-9409
Do you think this conference is having their meeting in deep drug areas? He probably would barely need to leave his adams morgan hotel.
Don’t wear jewelry and put money in your shoe? Do you really live that way day to day?
LevelDrawers t1_j9la0jk wrote
> They’ve had conferences in Chicago and Detroit which i outright REFUSED to go to. I considered attending DC until I read the papers on what goes on over there
From this and the rest of your responses it's pretty clear you've already made your mind up and are just looking for justification. "Read the papers"?
Macrophage87 t1_j9l9wuk wrote
Reply to comment by Unusual-Relief-9409 in Scared of traveling to Washington DC, how do I calm my anxiety? by Unusual-Relief-9409
If you want another look, this one actually compares deaths from external causes, not just all cause mortality. You're still much safer in cities that aren't Baltimore than rural areas.
solidrecommendations t1_j9l9w4v wrote
Reply to comment by [deleted] in Scared of traveling to Washington DC, how do I calm my anxiety? by Unusual-Relief-9409
For the record, it was MAGA Republicans who stormed the US Capitol as part of a seditious conspiracy to overthrow the government … so it’s really your party that is trying to ruin the country
vanzeppelin t1_j9l9nbf wrote
Reply to comment by Unusual-Relief-9409 in Scared of traveling to Washington DC, how do I calm my anxiety? by Unusual-Relief-9409
Nah this is a troll. "why does crime happen" are you serious? That's a question a 5 year old would ask. Crime happens literally everywhere. More people in an area equals more crime.
RDPCG t1_j9l9mbw wrote
Reply to comment by Unusual-Relief-9409 in Scared of traveling to Washington DC, how do I calm my anxiety? by Unusual-Relief-9409
Accept what? I've lived in and around DC my entire adult life - went to college here and have worked here. The city is absolutely fine. Frankly, I feel much more uncomfortable going to places in the US where everyone is and has a right to be armed. The parts of DC where you'd be better off not venturing to are places you aren't going to be going to anyway, because they're so far off the beaten path.
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Candid_Leg2768 t1_j9l9kms wrote
This is like the 50th post I’ve seen like this in a week.
I’m happy to share my 2 cents: I am a 30 year old, Deaf, white woman who has lived in what some people consider one of the “less attractive” neighborhoods in DC with 2 young kids.
This week alone I have walked 6+ miles around DC (which isn’t that much considering everything there is to do) BY MYSELF. And absolutely nothing has happened to me. …but how??? Let me tell you kind midwestern OP who watches too much right-wing television…I dressed appropriately for exercise (not to cover my body in shame but so I wouldn’t break an ankle in heels or be too cold). I kept my phone on my person or in my hands so I could check where I was or text/FaceTime a friend if needed. I went home as the day got later…I don’t make a habit of going out alone at night because that’s just #beingawomaninamerica
Now let me tell you about what I saw: I walked to the capitol building, the Supreme Court, the library of Congress, the Hall of fake Presidents, the FDR memorial, the tidal basin.
Today I will be venturing into a busier business area closer to dinner time to see the street art on NOMA and the Signing Starbucks…just for funsies. It might be closer to sunset when I leave Starbucks so I may opt for an Uber…or I might not because it’s not that serious. As long as my phone is on my person and I am dressed appropriately for the weather/exercise…I can do just about anything.
Some things that you might not be used to in the Midwest with little-no neighbors…people sit on their front porch and May talk loudly. People hang out outside of restaurants to smoke or talk loudly. People cross the street (NOT on a crosswalk) and don’t walk particularly fast. People sell drugs and walk around with open liquor bottles in brown paper bags. People might be selling their bodies because they are sex workers…but that’s not my business. So I just keep heading towards my destination and when I get there I’m fine.
[deleted] t1_j9l9f0v wrote
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Vortex2121 t1_j9l9emc wrote
First off -- there definitely was a better way to word the title and the whole post.
Second -- Just use common sense. Well-light areas, etc.
Third -- Coming from the midwest, I'd recommend bringing ear plugs it's loud at night compared to the country.
Fourth -- Mind your own business. And don't ask locals about "all the shootings".
Fifth -- for you, just stay in the tourist trap areas. You'll be fine.
BlueCollarGuru t1_j9l9b22 wrote
Reply to comment by Tragicat in Scared of traveling to Washington DC, how do I calm my anxiety? by Unusual-Relief-9409
It doesn’t line up with his prejudices. Therefore, it must be fake news.
AtomicSlop t1_j9l9a9w wrote
Yeah this has to be a joke
solidrecommendations t1_j9l98zz wrote
Reply to comment by Unusual-Relief-9409 in Scared of traveling to Washington DC, how do I calm my anxiety? by Unusual-Relief-9409
You should be embarrassed by your behavior
BlueCollarGuru t1_j9l957v wrote
Reply to comment by Unusual-Relief-9409 in Scared of traveling to Washington DC, how do I calm my anxiety? by Unusual-Relief-9409
You on some 🤡 💩
1800TurdFerguson t1_j9l925c wrote
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Why in the fuck are you even here? People are offering lived experiences of being in DC, and you keep responding with Faux News talking points. You refused to go to Chicago and Detroit? Please, do us all a favor and stay out of all cities.
super_derp69420 t1_j9l919n wrote
Reply to comment by Unusual-Relief-9409 in Scared of traveling to Washington DC, how do I calm my anxiety? by Unusual-Relief-9409
Typical.
Bbranched t1_j9l8y9f wrote
Reply to comment by BlueCollarGuru in Scared of traveling to Washington DC, how do I calm my anxiety? by Unusual-Relief-9409
lmfao this is borderline insane
Polldark01 t1_j9l8xvl wrote
Reply to comment by Unusual-Relief-9409 in Scared of traveling to Washington DC, how do I calm my anxiety? by Unusual-Relief-9409
I'm from the United Kingdom, and the US homicide rate is about 10 times higher than the rate in the UK. Mexico is around 5 times higher than the USA.
Maybe I should leave...
gutterbrain73 t1_j9l8x7m wrote
Reply to comment by Unusual-Relief-9409 in Scared of traveling to Washington DC, how do I calm my anxiety? by Unusual-Relief-9409
Why did you refuse to go to those?
sardine_succotash t1_j9l8t8y wrote
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lmao
solidrecommendations t1_j9l8r9i wrote
It’s fine to ask a question like this, but you don’t seem to be accepting the advice you’re receiving - from actual people who live in DC - that your fears are overblown. I lived in Adams Morgan for 8 years and I was never a victim of violent crime. Go to your convention or don’t, it doesn’t matter to me, but if you ask for advice, be prepared to receive it. Otherwise just stay in Indiana and live out your years there, without having seen your own country, let alone the world.
802stuff t1_j9lb9rc wrote
Reply to comment by super_derp69420 in Scared of traveling to Washington DC, how do I calm my anxiety? by Unusual-Relief-9409
I get shot every day when i walk to work and then again on my commute home so please take this advice!