It is your wedding, and thus your choice, but I'd not want guests to go hungry. Make sure there's tons of snacks before and after dinner if dinner itself isn't going to be that filling. You have to remember peoples appetites vary massively and it's a big stretch of time they are around. We had snacks -> multi course meal -> midnight snacks

Haute cuisine is nice if you're into it, and either a massive joke or torture if you aren't into it. I wouldn't expect haute cuisine at a wedding, and I would likely have to go out and eat afterwards because I'd be massively unsatisfied. I'd try not to leave the party early, but that would honestly depend on how recently I ate beforehand.

Congrats on the upcoming wedding, but as long as changing the caterers doesn't set you back more financially...I'm not gonna lie, you'll VERY likely have happier guests with a more robust cuisine.

read the phone name. seems likely it's SEA. higher end smart phones are very uncommon and having one at all even more so. not many over there understand what a vast resource these pocket computers are. redmi is near exclusively available in Asia

edit: guess i have to clarify teenagers with phones tend to not understand their full potency since people want to turn this into racism. i'm not calling asians dumb lmao. see below comment for more clarification.

Why TF do so many people decide to cook, put something on the stove, the go have a nice sit down in the other room? You realize the saying “a watched pot never boils” isn’t true, right? There is no “set it and forget it” in cooking.

Thanks. I do hope you are still getting counseling though. As far as what I went thru with the ex-girlfriend, it was a walk in the park compared to what I had an ex-fiance and an ex-wife do me.

Precisely. Odds are she still has them unless she deleted them AND deleted them from her recently deleted. Plus taking more isn’t that hard. She already sent him some which says she trusts him, I guarantee after the way he handled this situation, she will not be sending any more for a veryyyy looooong time

Bruh I'm not even joking, I'd be so mad lmao. There were no fuck ups here, beyond planning to force guests through an expensive all day event and then feed them a rabbit sized meal. Idk about this though:

>She's completely out of her mind and I don't know how to stop her

OP needs to see the light because fiancée sure is not the one out of their mind.

Ah I see what you're getting at, that's smart. At that ratio the 75 hungry guests could easily overpower the 25 full ones and eat them if things got too dire.

True, does she still have the nudes on her phone? Either way, she can just take more. Really confused why this happened the way it did.

Also confused as to why he was so adamant that he couldn’t delete them. Like why couldn’t he have said “hey I absolutely loved those photos and while trying to save them, I accidentally uploaded them to the cloud, your privacy trumps everything so I immediately deleted them. I’d love to have a few more for the future because I love being able to be intimate looking at you when we can’t be intimate together”? She was willing to send them once, she’s probably willing to do it again. Tell her that you love her and love her body but for fucks sake don’t make her sit and decide which ones are “keepers” with you

This lady poops

Look, if you have ravioli, you may reveal the formuoli…this needs to be a wedding, not a funeral.

There is a middle ground where you have "haute" cuisine for everything except for the main course.

Apps, various courses, dessert. but then have a massive bowl of pasta for the main course.

Me running to Google and that is basically exactly what it means 😂

My cousin did this at her wedding. My sister and I skipped the afterparty and went to a diner because we were still hungry.

We had a buffet for dinner and then a huge goulash at 11. And our wedding cake was made of ice cream. Everyone was happy with their food, though I had barely time to sit down and eat 😅

Honestly OP, the "two raviolis and lettuce" option really sucks for a wedding. You and your bride will not be relaxed enough to enjoy it, and most guests will probably not very care much for it.

you could compromise and have the good you’d like and then more filling food for the guests. you could also have food trucks come in the evening to serve food for those who feel hungry still. or have a big dessert table. or have lots of snacks in cocktail hour!

there’s so many options!

As a fat guy, all I have ever wanted at a wedding was for 20 minutes after the fancy but too small portions of dinner finish, dozens of pizzas to arrive so everyone can lose their minds with delight.

Take that pot outside and get to work with a chisel and hammer. Keep it for the battle scars. :)

Don't sweat it. It's all encrypted there. Nobody at will see them unless they have your password.

And how were they sent? If it's with an online service then they were already on some other server anyway.

Haute cuisine prices the two ravioli with a lettuce leaf as a full meal though, so trying to buffet style haute cuisine both defeats the point and would be ruinously expensive. It really is something that should only be for people to self select into, like when they chose to go to a restaurant focusing on that style. Otherwise it's just a recipe for a bunch of hangry guests.

Your mom isn't like ," where are my bath towels?"

> this at least a sit down service

This just means 100 guests go hungry, rather than 75 hungry guests and 25 full ones.

That's the most random statement. "Denver the Last Dinosaur" was a two-season, non-hit cartoon that came and went before you were even born! Was it weirdly popular in Europe or something, like Scrooge McDuck & the Duck Tales universe?