More nudes will come with trust. The will to keep and the pain of going through which one to keep is so distraughting to the woman whom someone was supposed to protect her.

You should re-evaluate yourself and personally and physically comfort her not just through call or message.

Thank you so much. That is the best way I've seen it put into words, I've tried to go to a couple therapists in the past but I haven't felt comfortable with them and my family said I was being too picky. I know I'm extremely lucky to have the option in the first place but I don't want to waste my family's money if it wasn't helping me. Thank you so much and I'm sorry for what you went through. <3

That’s why I also said with someone you trust to not pull anything sneaky to capture the image, I was referring to that. But you are correct, the easiest way is to just not send them in the first place.

As someone fluent in father-ese, I can tell you that he was talking about the quantity of the food, not the quality. I can absolutely assure you that if you put enough food in front of them, they will be happy.

So my ex was three years older than me at the time. I tried to take legal action but the authorities in my area (a small town) are family friends with the police and they refused to listen to me and outright ignored all my physical injuries and pictures and texts of proof. My family already didn't support me going to the police so after that attempt they said that I couldn't anymore. My ex later moved out of state so I'm not sure where he ended up. Thank you though!!

I don‘t know if you‘re looking for suggestions and I don‘t know a lot about weddings, but I was at my second one last year and it was fancy and so was the food. But there was a Buffet at 10 or 11 pm and it was the best thing ever, right when everyone gets slightly hungry again we could strengthen ourselves for all the dancing. Maybe there‘s a more casual food that means something to your relationship that you could offer as this after dinner snack (eg like hire a pizzatruck) so nobody leaves hungry. It may even loosen up the atmosphere if some people are unsatisfied with the haute cuisine. Alternatively you could not care about these people and enjoy your day as you please (but I strongly suggest the late night snack/buffet either way, it was a huge hit!) Have a nice wedding!

I get that you want to serve fine food but is this at least a sit down service? My sister in law did something like this but it was buffet style and no one understood that what was out was it for the food. They had 100 guests and ran out of food after the first 25 guests went to the buffet. Their wedding was beautiful but 75 people were there for 5 hours with no food (and just alcohol).

I'm not treating him any differently aside from not showering with him. I'm not taking any emotions out on him it was moreso his words catching me off guard like I explained. I am not punishing him I'm just saying I didn't know how to get it to stop bothering me. Please read a little more before assuming I'm being emotionally abusive to my boyfriend. Thank you

Just remember, we all have scars, some are visible, most are not. Your boyfriend seems genuine & supportive, from what you shared, he loves all of you, the visible & invisible scars, who knows, he may have some too. Professional therapy would be a good start for you and include him, let him be a part of your healing process. I hope the best for both of you!

Hence "Unless some vulnerability on Google's side". And Google will have every reason to make sure nothing breaks. Either way, OPs nudes would be the last thing an attacker would want during a data breach of Google's services

Sorry it wasn't really clear, idk what it really is so that's just what I call it.

So I have a birthmark on my back, it's not really a mole but it's slightly raised that I've always had. His response wasn't a joke but more of an honest statement about it. Thank you tho!!

OK I'm pretty tolerant on gay marriage and people being who they are, but 2 ravioli on a lettuce leaf would probably upset me as well.

(ok joking but really why not serve some filling food as well? If the guests have to go to get a hot dog or burger after, is that a good thing?)

I agree. Thank you!!

How old are you two? This is such an easy problem to fix - fucking delete the pictures. Nudes etiquette is very clear: you get a nude, you enjoy it, you delete it.

He does! He is an amazing partner and has never been judgmental of me and overall is the sweetest person I have ever met (family and close friends included). Thank you!!

thank you!!

I can understand were that might be the case but he wasn't joking when he said that, it was more of a statement and not really one of his jokes.

He's probably fine with ravioli and lettuce, he just wants a lot of it. Is it a buffet table (where he could load a plate, more than once), or like served plates with a small portion that would make him possibly embarrassed to ask for more?

well thank you!!

thank you!!!

Thank you! I have already told him before that I'm looking into therapy and that if he wants to be apart of it he can be too because while working on my past I want to ensure a better future for us.

It worked out for everybody when Milton burned Initech to the ground. Just sayin'.

Is this couple seriously thinking that uploading to Google Photos (personal drive) puts those photos up for the world to search through or something? Because.... that's not how it works. I'm confused now.

2 factor authentication can be thwarted especially with Google's services

These clouds are just someone else's computer