it takes too much time when I could be making this money 😂

Tell the truth. This is something I am teaching my 4 year old. If she tells me the truth about something she's done wrong, I won't be as mad (usually I'm not mad at all and very understanding about why she's done it). If she lies to me and I find out that she lied to me, even if it's something innocent, that's when I galet upset and she gets in trouble. So, own up to it and tell the truth. I mean, the worst is that you'll be fired, BUT, if you like, that's a guaranteed firing and potential lawsuit on your hands because the have seen an intent to steal instead of an accident.

Rolling is for broke folks is absolute bollocks 😂

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It's about 3.6 röntgens

Am I missing something? Google photo is your own private cloud. So you moved the photo from one private cloud to another (xiaomi to Google). It's not public, why are you upset? No one can see it. If you don't get hacked ofc, but that danger existed with both clouds.

The big fuckup is ofc picking and choosing picture with your girlfriend. Talk about being hurtful.

Uganda. I guess they call it the Pearl of Africa for a reason 🤷🏾‍♂️

Damn dude thats such a shame. Also what country you live in? I might move

The way I see this here, is you possibly joked about one of your scars, so he made a slight joke about your scars, to which you took offence? Or am I getting the wrong end of the stick?

you know what? Maybe being single isn’t such a bad thing. Christ, I’d rather blow my brain out than go through relationship drama like this.

If the OP's google account is used by someone else in his family or is logged in to other device, then the images will be accessible. That's the scary part of this post imo. Imagine trying to explain these pics to your family.

Just because someone doesn't mean to be hurtful doesn't mean you have to ignore that it hurt.

Earlier today, my wife accidentally hit my face with her elbow when she reached for something. I didn't blame her and still think the world of her, but ya know, if my nose were bleeding, I'd go take care of it.

You're probably feeling very vulnerable and insecure right now. Be aware of that and do whatever you have to do to be comfortable. That doesn't mean you think your bf is a bad person. Recognizing that you're hurting is not the same as blaming the person or thing that hurt you.

Also with your history you would be sensitive to comments. Explain that you understand where he's coming from and explain where you're coming from. Communication is key

Did the SA verbal physical mental lead to charges I.e. if you're 11 at the time 3 yrs making a max of 14 that there is at least stat rape depending on the offenders age. Regardless of that they need to be reprimanded

Your sensitivity ans pain are expected reactions to an awful period in your life. But it wasn't your fault and that period is past, and you deserve to be happy and carefree now. I'm fairly sure that counselling with a competent therapist would help you to get there. A GP could refer you, or you could google for names of psychologists in your region. For example the American Psychological Association if you live in the US.

Probably not the right sub to post this in, but here are my thoughts.

You are both very young and lack life experience. I'm sure your boyfriend is trying his best to not hurt your feelings and support you when it comes to your past trauma, but as an 18 year old he doesn't nearly have enough experience to replace a professional therapist.

So here is the best tip I can give. Try to find a cognitive behavioral therapist to work on your trauma. It will make things so much easier for you!

Let your boyfriend be part of it and don't completely shut him out. Communication is key.

I'm sure with time you'll understand that those scars aren't reminders of your past trauma, but marks of honor that are proof of your strength and will of survival.

Tattooing Over A Scar: Everything You Need To Know - Saved Tattoo

Unrelated but TL;DR means "Too long, Didn't read" which is just a summary of what you wrote for lazy people who don't like to read.

Set up a go fund me page. Many may be willing to donate, especially friends and family, for you to have them covered.

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Thank you again <3

It's okay. At the end of the day, it came from a place of love, but it was a place of vulnerability for you. I'm glad you see it for what it is, despite how it may have felt.

That's exactly what I think. He's a wonderful person inside and out and I let myself overthink too much sometimes. Thank you!!!

Perspective.

He sees your scars as beautiful, you obviously don't. It'll take some time because you're hurt by it all and that's absolutely okay. He just wasn't very tactful in what he was saying.

I've thought about it fs, and yes! It sucks and it's usually all I see when I look in the mirror most times. Thank you!