It's hurt you emotionally, because deep down, you know that, no matter what, people will always see the scars as something of a 'sight seeing' Whether it is to recognize your corpse or people judging you or inquiring, for having them.

However, you can get them tattoo'd over. It can be a skin colour tattoo, rather than some picture/image

That's how I feel, I love him a lot I just don't know how to get over it. Thank you!!

Ooooof. Open mouth, insert foot.

Bro fucked up. I wouldn't call it a deal breaker but it's definitely the sort of thing that will make it tense around each other for awhile.

Same in the U.S. actually, Google Photos is private unless you share them externally on purpose.

Are you in Europe? Asking becauase the privacy laws in EU make you the owner of anything you upload to the NET and legally not even the host or vendor of the service you are using can access, see or share what you upload into your personal account. So if you are in EU those pics were never compromissed. In other regions I don't know how it works.

As a former employer, if you came to me and explained it exactly as you did here, I’d give you a talking to and let it slide. Clearly it was not your intention to steal.

HOWEVER, if you didn’t say a word and I found out through other means, I’d fire you faster that you can say “bye”.

Tell the truth. Show integrity. Explain why and how and what you will do in order to compensate them for the computer or provide them with one of similar or higher value.

Best of luck, I think it’s apparent that you made a mistake, and mistakes are only learning opportunities. If all else is bueno, this shouldn’t get you fired provided you do as I mentioned above.

That said, I was a pretty nice boss 🥰. People will work far harder for you if you show them empathy and understanding, and lead with kindness rather than with tyranny.

Please let me k ow how this turns out for you. Im rooting for you!

If you are sure you will be caught, then come Forward before it happens. It's a risk, and onestly you may want to consult a lawyer, but only from a reputation point of wiew, you will not sustain a big loss from people know you were stealing from items destined to the dumpster.

That is the true fuck up part, should have dumped em and called it a day rather than awkwardly going through them like that.

Make sure you update this. Good luck

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So basically nothing happened and you feel bad for not knowing how to do something you could have learned from Google. You can pick which folders are synced by Google photos.

You two are clearly 15 or something.

If you think they're likely to catch you anyway, then it may be best to own up to it and apologise. It does seem to be a genuine error rather than intentional theft...

You may still be fucked, but, it may give you a chance to get away with a disciplinary instead of being fired.

Well good luck. If they space you, sing something badass.

Yeah exactly, no one's digging through it unless you get hacked (if you have 2 factor authentication and everything, there is zero to no chances unless some vulnerability on Google's side).

Also you could have just screenshotted the photos and deleted them so they still existed.

If it's on Google Photos... those aren't public???

Yeah the main fuck up here was in cherry picking the photos to keep, you had so many opportunities where you yourself even went "this is a bad idea, don't do that" and then you did it anyway. And then she's sitting there crying feeling like you care more about looking at some picture of her body than about her feelings as a person, and then you're crying (hope to fuck she didn't hear that, she doesn't need the guilt trip) and you still. Don't just. Delete the photos to make her feel better.

I'm gonna assume you guys are on the younger side because this is the kind of dumb horny mistake a young man makes. And cause freaking out over a Google backup locked to your account is a bit much. The important thing here, apologize let her know you know you messed up and that it won't happen again. Don't ask for nudes again, maybe get creative with texting if you're that hard up. Yeah you messed up, but you can learn from this (listen to the BIG brain next time) and it sounds like you two do actually care about each other so you'll probably be fine.

No - sterile means unable to produce children, a chimera can produce children they just won't breed male calicos

My brother in laws hacked my accounts and went through my emails and cloud storage. The two places my wife's nsfw pics are. And they distributed the emails to their friends.

Not to mention the way they treated my children.

Cloud storage isn't the same as dissemination.

Actually, i think you shouldn't send nudes to each other anymore.

If you wana wank use your imagination. That second half tells me you have a problem. They are just pics. Let them go! You can wait a few days to see your girl irl.

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Yes!!! Do not place yourself in a position to be uncomfortable with your own photos Realize anything captured on phones or videos.. even just yours.. isn't safe. Be comfortable and aware always of your image and where it may can be.

How???? Seriously how did he breach trust She sent photos to him They are out there. Once you send a photo out what happens after isn't a guarantee and that's why I say these kiddos aren't ready for this level of technology

This is precious If you send a nude as an actual adult be prepared for it to go to anyone. Even your douche bf who will make you cry whilst perusing them. Yall some real weirdos. She should not be taking and sending these pics. She's not there. She's uncomfortable. She's doing it though. So I'm confused. Why are we supposed to feel anything but.. what even is this post but a boys way of talking about he has nudes and wanted to save them and because he is so new to technology doesn't get the moment they leave and travel t9 him... They are fair game. They are out there. If someone is gonna hack his anything sweetie trust they will get alllll the things worth having. And if someone is so personal and dedicated to getting the naked pics he has... they will get them. Why this dude made her go through knowing this dumb shit and then... picking through them until she cried...

That's the real mystery/interesting bit

While choosing the photos was definitely not the right move and they should have just been deleted altogether…

Please, please, please, if you REALLY don’t want your nudes getting out and you’re scared of having them leaked, just don’t send them. Or at the very least, do something that deletes itself like Snapchat (since it’ll also notify you if someone screenshots) with someone you trust to not pull anything sneaky around that to capture the image.

Even people with good intentions, like OP, can still risk those nudes getting out there without necessarily meaning to.

Too big of a risk with major consequences.