Recent comments in /f/tifu

Eraevn t1_j9xay0v wrote

Reply to comment by Vekxin_Sama92 in TIFU by backing my photos, endangering my gf's privacy by pieceofshit_lol

Every hear of the fappening? Or any celeb icloud hack? His password gets snagged in a phishing incident or a data breach on another site puts anything backed up to the cloud at risk. Technically more secure on the device, because of outside of it being stolen, he can directly restrict access, although as long as it has internet access it too is vulnerable, people just don't consider that aspect.

Plus it takes a certain level of trust in sending nudes, simply because you have to have complete trust that they won't send em to buddies, putting them on the internet, or if a bad split sending them to friends and family.

Sounds like you need a lesson in internet security and empathy. She isn't making him feel bad out of malicious intent, she is coping with significant insecurities being triggered, and is justified, because even if the risks are microscopic, they aren't 0.

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vaguegeneralitiessss t1_j9xa18m wrote

Reply to comment by pieceofshit_lol in TIFU by backing my photos, endangering my gf's privacy by pieceofshit_lol

One last contribution to this... odd post

Being a serious mature adult partner is more than keeping things from one another or not.

A true partner doesn't engage in harmful behavior. Not that I think what occurred was but you two kiddos seem to think it may have.. Nice of you to declare you don't hide things from your partner but the real adults.. Don't do dumb shit like this and then feel the need to seek reassurance or responses online. That's why I said that part was more interesting. Why you felt the need to save them then in a way that you knew would upset her tell her about it and go on discord and pick out some to keep till she's crying good night?

Seems really..healthy and awesome and mature? /s

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vaguegeneralitiessss t1_j9x8fvm wrote

Reply to comment by pieceofshit_lol in TIFU by backing my photos, endangering my gf's privacy by pieceofshit_lol

But... Being an adult means you know the moment you send a photo out it's out.

There is zero reason to panic with a cloud. Saving. Whatever. It is out. And if you are so traumatized that you are on discord crying picking photos..

Perhaps neither of you are ready for that level of technological exchange. You are never safe in the world of pictures be they on the cloud or phone or printed. Think before you do. And if you really love someone don't hurt them because you wanna keep something they already sent to you on an unsecured platform by talking about how you messed up. Just save your stuff and move on. It's not hiding. You didn't sell her photo or post it. You didn't open it to the masses any more than her sending it did.

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Vekxin_Sama92 t1_j9x7s2t wrote

Reply to TIFU by backing my photos, endangering my gf's privacy by pieceofshit_lol

What is she mad about??? They’re backed to an account that only you have access to and is literally no different than if they were just sitting on your phone, honestly the account would be more secure than just on the phone anyway so she’s essentially upset for nothing, guilting you for nothing and messing with your mental state because she’s not using reason to understand that there is absolutely nothing to be upset about

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GsTSaien t1_j9x2nwf wrote

Reply to comment by Alittlemoorecheese in TIFU by not telling my partner about my intimate life in the past by HereckMistwalker

If you are still seeing the people you were sexually involved with, that is a variable that your partner should know. It is not your call to decide if your partner is ok with that or not. You can break it off with someone who is not ok with it if you want, but you don't get to decide ir they are comfortable with that or not. By not telling them something important like that, you rob your partner of their right to decide how they feel about that.

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pebblesky OP t1_j9wwh4v wrote

Reply to comment by [deleted] in TIFU By sleeping less than 3 hours everyday for a month and causing it to all catch up to me at once by pebblesky

Olaplex makes a shampoo and conditioner. It's what they use to WASH your hair at salons. Im not referring to the other olaplex products though I do love all of them and have used most olaplex products. Even though I already have wonderful hair, I still occasionally use the repair products and I get constant compliments on my hair, everyday, pretty much wherever I go. My stylist says she loves working on my hair because I take such good care of it and it makes her job easy and makes whatever I want, possible.

I am autistic and have been diagnosed with ADHD as well. But I have other things going on too

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BloodSpades t1_j9watjc wrote

Reply to comment by Parthenogenetic in TIFU by forgetting there was a snail in there by AdamicAtom

Family member had a hermit crab as a kid… It got out of its tank somehow and almost cleared the room, until they walked in to get something. Like two steps in, and before they could turn on the light (hanging switch in the center), their bare foot made contact with something cold, wet, soggy and hard as the poor crab was yeeted across the dark room, under a dresser. They SCREAMED bloody, freakin MURDER!!!

After the light was turned on and a brave soul with a broom stick managed to fling the poor thing out, they realized it was the crab, tangled in a mess of dirt, hair and lint. After a good rinse, the no longer abysmal dust bunny was returned to their tank and lived out the rest of its life with no problems. Still escaped a few more times though…

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