> I plan to delete my save as well because I wouldn't want to play without him (seeing as I only played with the intent of it being with him).

Don't do that, just shelf the game. Maybe you can contine playing with him in some time, once you have some distance from the current situation.
If I was him it would feel like you are punishing yourself for his response, which might make the situation even worse.

Truly isnt, free to join, free to leave. It’s the culture around the religion that becomes toxic.

You never know how the dice turn out. Good chance you might found out a similar thing years later after a marriage, or with children in the mix, at that point things become a lot more complicated.

It sounds like whatever happened was the best thing and now you can both move forward with a fresher perspective.

Can legit confirm this happened. I was the pancakes.

It sounds like your mom loves you more than she loves her religion, she is just struggling with that decision a bit at the moment. Just do your best to show her that even without religion you can be a good person

You’d be surprised how many “straight” or married guys are on Grindr and other gay dating sites. Sorry this happened to you, you’re not alone and it’s not your fault.

Lol exactly! And it good double for people in the military imo

I mean, is it dangerous if you're smart enough to unplug it first? A dryer isn't rocking a deadly capacitor like an old CRT TV, right?

I’m only willing to work on things live that I fully understand. Doing it blind live? That’s damn ballsy for sure!

No. Thats not what they said at all, you can choose to infer meaning, or actually read what they wrote. Which was that it is NO excuse for cheating. Their entire post was obviously centered around OP not feeling inadequate or lacking. It was clear it was put in as a possible reason for this man cheating, reasons are not excuses. And the man is still absolutely at fault. It was important to say this because many people in OPs shoes would feel like they where part of the problem or feel insecure.

> I just feel like I cant share all my burden with him and so I dont tell him.

Unfortunately that's a big part of being in a relationship, you have to burden each other. Communication is essential. It is up to them whether they can deal or want to bail, can't make that decision for them.

Glad to hear you've resolved it in a very positive way. Sorry for all your losses, but you seem to have a pretty solid support system going. Just try not to be so hard on yourself, life isn't easy.

Even if you didn't, it would've been someone else

Now thats fighting fire with fire

No point competing when the prize is a cheater

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Because they are. When you need pressure but overt and covert to keep adherents, it is a cult.

Reminds me of the definition of a cult.

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Sounds about right

My advice is the same

I don’t actually know any vegans like the one you say 😅maybe one day, but I know a lot of vegans and they’re all cool.

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I was like reading and reading and thinking, “wait where’s the cheating girl in this story?” Did you ever expect your bf to be into dudes?