There's no way you aren't a older man writing out a freaky little fantasy on Reddit dot com.

Of course it’s going to cool down, but being mad upon first revelation is a normal human reaction. It detailed that the boyfriend was in the middle of something else stressful, and the response kind of pushed him over the edge. It also went on to sound like the guy has cooled off literally the next morning and is just trying to put it behind them, but OP wants to do something to try to make it up to him. I totally understand not wanting to start over in a game you have 140+ hours in, that’s normal. It sounds like he forgave her and she simply just still feels guilty and wants to do something that would make it up to him

Congrats on you and your wife being together for so long btw. No ill will on my end, just a different interpretation of the situation and what is a normal response to this specifically

Change all your passwords.

You very heavily implied that bisexual men are more likely to cheat then straight men.

It’s not your fault at all. And chances are you bf has cheated before.

You deserve better than him. Find someone who’ll treat you right.

But whatever you do don’t marry this guy. Never, ever marry someone who cheats on you.

Fuck yeah! That is the FU I like. Big drama, like in movies or so.

Thank goodness for that. I myself live in a country in West Africa and in my country atheists or agnostics aren't looked at kindly. Worse if one is a muslim in muslim majority areas and they leave. Safety is a serious issue, and denial of work opportunities is normal.

I live in western Europe, that's thankfully not a worry of mine

While I'm wholly in support of choosing your religion or lack of it (I myself I'm atheist all family are catholic) I think people should be a bit careful in letting others know, especially if leaving your religion could bring harm to you or cause serious problems in navigating life where you live.

In some places apostasy is a thing, and in other places while nothing as drastic as that exists, people knowing you aren't religious will literally mean you will be sidelined for jobs or not even be considered at all.

Not every country is progressive and has progressive people.

It’s a double edged sword, and it all comes down to how the situation shakes out. Like others have said, if your boyfriend doesn’t end up being understanding, sweetheart leave his ass where he stands. If he ends up being mature and actually listens and reacts responsibly, hear him out and at least let him say his piece AFTER you feel comfortable and are done sharing how YOU feel.

Everyone said everything already so just sending a hug. Maybe go spend a weekend in a hotel eating chocolate before you do the whole blow up your life thing. Im sorry. Be kind to you and take all the time you need.

Totally understand. I had a similar experience of emotional numbing during my highschool and early college years with Concerta. It's really jarring coming off of it and feeling feelings.

Here if you want to talk

Craving something you had no way of giving us implying that because your partner is missing a body part you may like, you will always be craving it? So if you’re bi and with a woman, you’ll saying they’ll always be craving a dick and if you’re with a man, they’ll always be craving a vagina? Is that not implying the bi person is always looking to cheat?

Not at all. Sometimes & my bestie does frequently.

You are a very caring partner and someone would love to have you by their side. Please don't feel bad about yourself.

If it wasn't this man it would have been another

I doubt this is the first time he's slept with Leo. You can't compete with a man. If he is willing to cheat so quickly after being together for 3 years, that tells you exactly where your relationship is at. Once a cheater, always a cheater.

240 volts of exceptionally profound life lessons learned. Please, don’t ever disassemble your appliances EVER again, no matter how much you learned today.

Sincerely, An experienced appliance technician/technical advisor

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Yeah dawg i’m sorry you’re going through that. My mother recently found god and now everything is satanic and against Christianity apparently. I don’t understand religion at all

You're getting downvoted because you're wrong lol

No. You didn't cause this to happen. If your relationship was secure, you wouldn't be afraid to introduce your partner to the hottest person in the world. The fact that you will be worried going forward, is a sign that your relationship is toxic.

I wish someone had told me that 15 years ago, when I decided to stay with the cheater. Even if they never actually cheat again, the root issues that caused that person to cheat in the first place, have caused me endless grief.

I understand now that cheating on a partner is a sign of having toxic beliefs about your self-worth, self-respect and/or shame. These can be undone I would say for 100% of people, however it can take years of effort and suffering in the interim, unless you happen to be able to fast-track with a good psychologist.

Nobody cares that much about $700 man. Just tell them what happened and pay back over time. They'd rather get their money back than put themselves in some major heat. Just make sure you don't fuck around, and reevaluate your choices.

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I'm curious, what were her reasons?