What you do with your own naughty bits is your business- not your parents', your church's, or even God's for that matter. Keep exploring your sexuality, and to hell ( no pun intended ) with what your parents think.

I subscribe to the Judeo-Christian faith myself, but I still think that organized religion is deeply toxic- especially in matters of sex.

Yea fair I was just saying if I couldn’t share my burdens with my partner because of the way they might act I wouldn’t want that relationship like she shouldn’t have to lie about not going to class if she doesn’t feel well mentally

You’d be surprised how many “straight” or married guys are on Grindr and other gay dating sites. Sorry this happened to you, you’re not alone and it’s not your fault.

My brother’s DND game moved to zoom for pandemic. Why not that? Call the old gang, get a monthly game going, zoom that shit.

Dude, I don’t know you from Adam, but I’mma throw some free advice out here…

Ya gotta take care of yourself. Right now, you’re doing a hell of a lot for your lady and your smallfry, and that’s awesome! BUT! You can’t keep doing that if you burn yourself out, and besides, you deserve some you time too, completely separately of that.

Talk to your lady. Talk to her ‘rents. Tell them you’re burning out and need to make some space to chill and recharge before you deplete your battery completely. Good folks will understand. Take an evening, even if it’s just a couple times of month, and do SOMETHING for yourself. Join a pool league. Go hang at the local game store. Make a date with yourself to hang in a local cafe/check out a museum/go for a local bike ride/see a movie in the theater with popcorn and everything… just do SOMETHING.

Believe me, it’s worth it, and there’s nothing wrong with needing a little you time. It doesn’t mean you love your family any less. Stop being a martyr and take care of yourself so you can keep taking care of them. You got this. Some rando in the internet is rooting for you! :D

They are made with a break away connection because this isn't as rare as people think.

Pack his shit up, tell him you know, and tell him he's a pos for cheating and move on

I don't think that she's going to be your girlfriend for much longer.

One time doesn’t change everything

I honestly have a feeling that if OP had never brought up the fact they were autistic at all, people would be significantly less judgmental. I've seen posts with fuck-ups severely worse than this and no one gives them this hard of a time about their mistake.

This reminds of Ross in friends and how he had encouraged his wife to make more friends, and then she realised she was lesbian.

And yeah the situation totally sucks for you and please mourn your relationship. But also tell yourself that you found out before you guys decided to tie the knot.

Also, your bf is a total dillhole for not being man enough to come clean with you. You’re better off girl.

Or just unplug it?

I read your comment and then immediately realized that if someone ever got my phone and saw the messages between me and the guys I work with, they would assume I was in to some wild shit lol

This was not your fault, you did a wonderful thing for the man you loved and he threw it in your face. I hope you come out of this a stronger person, being hurt like this takes a toll <3

Well you're clearly not a very good drug dealer, try mowing lawns

Cant learn anything if I’m dead

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Dad doesn’t pay child support and my mum is struggling

Lay off the meth

I dissagree it sounds like he doesnt understand her issues she is down so much she wants to dissappear she only surfaces far enough to get to normal some times. She doesnt just need therapy she needs hard core grief counseling and more intense therapy and i am gonna say if she wants her bf to remain at her side he needs to be a part of helping her stay up and she needs to let him in and help too.

My urologist told me about a guy in his 30s came in with penile cancer. His mother was single and he didn’t have a father to tell him to pull his foreskin back when he pees and to keep it clean.

Hot.

I will also mention the desire to just dissappear that is more substantial than you are letting on. That is basically suicidal thoughts.

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And…you…didn’t shut off the main power before opening it like allll the warning labels say??