Recent comments in /f/tifu

KeyOutlandishness652 t1_j9hqeyk wrote

Ngl your boyfriend sounds toxic. I’m not saying dump him but if he can’t help ease you through the pain then it’s not really a worthy attribute for boyfriend/husband material. When I was going through the same thing my mum was the person I talked to aswell as a therapist they each told me to find something positive each day ik it sounds cliche but it helped ease me into coming out of my shell. I also think the inviting your bf to one of your therapy sessions could help so your therapist can show him the ways of helping you through this and if he isn’t up to do that for you I think you might need to revaluate what’s best for your health

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ozzy1289 t1_j9hq66f wrote

Im 25 and been in the same relationship for 4+ years now. You deserve someone who talks about you how you talk about them and your language and manner of speaking is very disrespectful to her. All i know about your situation is i feel bad for that poor woman after reading your post. Someone please help her.

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G7umpy_Fac3 t1_j9hq0ly wrote

Nah it doesn't. You can point at someone taking a shit in a shop doorway and say "they're a prick" without shitting in a doorway yourself.

Read your own TLDR as to why you're an unpleasant person who should reconsider whether or not posting such things is a useful application of our short time on earth.

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[deleted] t1_j9hpckk wrote

Actions aren't going to change a biological inclination towards wanting to have sex with men lol what?

So your solution is for him to just stay closeted and not have sex with men even if he is gay or bi-sexual? As long as he doesn't commit to action everything is fine?

Such a weird take. He's obviously not mentally or emotionally adjusted to his reality.

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