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Come join the infidels club.

With blackjack and hookers ..

Damn, that sucks.

Things may seem bad now, but maybe having everything out in the open now is better than continuing to live a lie for who knows how many years?

Or if you would rather lie to avoid making things difficult between you and your family, maybe tell them you were misled by one of your classmates and that you regret what you said/did and promise to be a devout Muslim for the rest of your life.

As a couple you guys will have many obstacles, fights and miscommunications. Everyone make mistakes. Relationships are all about having patience and forgiveness. Can't expect your partner to be perfect. He may sulk a bit but he should get over it pretty soon. If he can't get over a saved file then I don't see you guys working out at all in the long run.

It is your fault as you did not double check but it is hardly a big issue at all. He is old enough to get you did not do it intentionally.

Fucked around and found out

Ignore them. They won't understand. Mistakes happen when emotions are high and we start to get overloaded. Rational choices aren't made and you did your best to fix the situation. You're doing the best you can and I'm proud of you. 💕

TIFU by driving under the influence.

That was my plan, but he keeps saying he won't ever play it again and that suggestion made him mad

I did try :( unfortunately because the profile was deleted and readded, it started the game up like a brand new game, and there was no previous saves to load.

I did this as well over 20 years ago as well. I was just in a rush to get back home from college so I could eat before work. I totally took the nozzle out and left it in the gas station.

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You're a better person than I was.

best comment on this thread wish i could give it award others keep talking about dui of pot

It'll take time for him to get over it. It'll be a high probability he won't play scarlet anymore.

You were 100% under the influence and you're lying to yourself to make yourself feel better. If you were sober, you wouldn't have made such a stupid decision. This was careless and if you admitted in your post that your brain was still "a little fuzzy" during this incident.

Own up to the mistake, be better, and don't endanger others with your decisions.

It sounds like ogre so it kinda makes sense

It is just the dumbass tax.

You might want to consider getting checked for narcolepsy, it can aggravate or even be the cause of depression. If you're regularly nodding off without realizing it you may have it to some degree. It's a very underdiagnosed condition.

this is why you dont get into this business. You are in deeeeeeep shit.

GL tho

You’re missing the point.

You say the commenter is wishing harm to come to you.

No.

The commenter is wishing you would face consequences for your own irresponsible actions.

Preferably before you hurt someone.

OP, if your boyfriend ever goes get into Pokémon again, suggest he keep rare Pokémon like shinies in Pokémon Home when possible. Home is cloud storage so even if you delete his profile the Pokémon will still be there. I have collectively spent over a thousand hours in Pokémon games and keep my living dex, shinies, event Pokémon, etc. all in Home to prevent this exact situation from happening. Unfortunately, Pokémon Home isn't available for Pokémon Scarlet yet, so there was nothing that could be done in this situation. Home connection is coming this Spring, just in time for him to start the game again if he chooses.

The good side of that is that he didn't trade his beloved or now impossible to obtain Pokémon from past games to Scarlet because it's not possible to do that yet. There's really nothing you deleted from his game that cannot be obtained again, though if he had a lot of shinies and had a complete dex it'll probably take another hundred hours to get back to that point. I can't blame him for not wanting to dedicate that much time to redoing what he's already done.

Pokémon games are some of the few games that do not allow cloud saves on Switch because they don't want people to be able to clone Pokémon/get multiples of rare Pokémon. So if the profile gets deleted, the save file is gone. There's no fix for this unfortunately.

As someone else who is autistic, I'd recommend you step back and take a deep breath next time a change is bothering you. It can be tough to get over the impulsive response to reject change but putting up with things in your life changing is part of being in a relationship. Even if he did put a profile on your Switch, it's really not the end of the world, and not something that needed to be deleted without talking to him first.

Oh I extremely misread, okay, thanks.

At least it was only a gas pump damaged and not a person.

You were absolutely too high to drive.

I'm a woman and I'd be devastated if anyone deleted a Pokémon save file of mine. This isn't some gamer manchild fit, that's hours and hours of dedication.

Saves on switches are tied to the profile. OP deleted the profile so all of the profiles local saves for every game will have gone with it

I’d never speak to my wife the way that man decided to react about a video game. A mistake was made, but his reaction shows his maturity level and priorities pretty clearly.

Can confirm. Did this when I was 20 and drove the hell off in utter embarrassment, returning did not cross my mind at that time. The one I did it on seemed to be built to pop off, altho that could easily have just been what I told myself.