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chaosmetroid t1_j9ggu3b wrote

No offense OP.

Your BF might not be helpful. My GF goes through depression and I try my best to give her my all to help her and support her.

If she would have told me she took a sleep in the car instead of going to school. I would probably join her so she doesn't have to be alone.

Maybe instead of going to school we get food.

I learn it's best to show someone isn't alone and they are loved and cared for.

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SaveHumanityFrom t1_j9gdozp wrote

>Today I was at my friends place chilling and hit a couple dabs and got a little faded. I left after a couple of hours and stopped to get gas on the way home.

>My brain must’ve still been fuzzy, because when it was finished pumping I got out, got my receipt, got back in my car, and drove off.

>>I wasn't impaired

The biggest cope ever provided by a shit head who drives while under the influence of a drug.

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GreenEyedTrombonist t1_j9gbvsf wrote

Can you get a skin for his Switch from one of his favorite games (maybe not pokemon though)? Probably a good idea going forward to make sure this doesn't happen again.

He's upset right now, exacerbated by already having a bad trip, and is wallowing. You f'ed up, but if your relationship is otherwise strong he will likely forgive if the apology and efforts to make amends are sincere.

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tosser1579 t1_j9gam94 wrote

This is on you. I wouldn't want to redo that much time into a pokemon game again. Fortunately, bribery has a way of fixing thing so pretty much be prepared to eat 140 hours of 'misery' to pay him back.

He gets to pick all the restarants for a while, go see his choice of movies, be extra nice to him. If he loves you, he'll eventually forgive you. I know I did when my wife sold my Final Fantasy II and III in box, plus my in box Chrono Trigger, for 15 dollars at a yard sale.

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rillian118 t1_j9g8ki7 wrote

I did essentially the same thing when I was in college many years ago. I didn't realize I had fallen into depression and it was rough to pull myself out of that.

I second that you should reach out to your therapist about it, but I'm worried that your partner isn't sympathetic regarding your depression. If he doesn't respect it, he isn't respecting you and there is no world where I can see him understanding or respecting your needs if he's holding you to his bizarre standard of productivity.

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boxer126 t1_j9g5tak wrote

Yeah, I get what you're saying but I run into family friends all the time when out with my family. I have kids and am involved with the community though, so it's not a rare coincidence for me, it's very much the norm. But running into someone 3 hours away would be a pleasant surprise.

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