So, what I said is still correct though. I still made a mistake And the consequence was accidental. By telling me I did not make a mistake, I made a choice, you're implying that a mistake is not an action, but it is. You can't make a mistake without a choice.

An accident is not a choice I didn't mean to delete his data off his switch because I was unaware it was his.

I'm not denying the choice

I'm sad because I made a bad choice: a mistake And the consequence was accidentally deleting his game data, which made him angry.

He would not be angry if i genuinely deleted his profile off of my own switch, because that would not matter to him. He was angry that he lost progress on a game we played online together and bonded over, which ultimately hurts me too because I don't want to progress without him, as I only had fun with him.

It was a selfish choice that led to a mistake. I'm sorry you suffer from autism and it causes those feelings, but you chose to delete that profile... and that's why I said it isn't right to blame autism for asshole choices. Autism put you in a bad place and that cannot be controlled, but what you chose to do there is on you. You're 27...

Uncle fucka!!

You're a cock-sucking, ass-licking uncle fucka!!

I attempted to do this but unfortunately it didn't work because the game opened as if it was brand new. 😕

https://www.makeuseof.com/pokmon-scarlet-and-violet-how-to-recover-lost-save-files/

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This might be worth a try. Pokemon Scarlet/Violet apparently has a hidden recovery feature. Who knows if it will work

A mistake is an action, decision or judgment that produces an unwanted or unintentional result. Be definition, I made a mistake.

It wasn't a mistake though, you intentionally deleted a profile because you wanted it gone. It was an asshole move to delete it even if it was your Switch, considering you still have a profile on his.

It was also a mistake And the overall consequence was an accident

No, I don't think it's a twisted "I'll show him hahaha", I think it's a "Why does he have an account on my Switch? Help me get rid of it, now." Which still makes it a selfish and petty act that led to a massive FU. Autism makes you have the reaction to the stimulus but you still chose what you were going to do next, you made the choice to delete it without speaking to him after assuming he was the one being thoughtless. You're blaming autism for your choice to be an asshole. Being frustrated and bothered by your boyfriend having a profile on your Switch was something you can't control, deleting his profile was a choice though.

There is zero chance she doesn't break up with you when she gets back.

Use this as a learning moment. if you don't trust your significant other, don't be with them. Don't dictate what they can or can't do, if you have a strong difference of opinion on what's acceptable, move on.

Great story and it’s good you both laughed it off! How was the morning sex?

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You weren't to know. Hope you had a good time!

Just laugh it off with your friend, lol.

I bought the switch for him and only made a profile on it to play one game, then it was his. I then bought one for myself FOR HIM for the sake of playing games together. I was upset because a change happened that I wasn't prepared for. I don't process change well. That's why I'm saying you do not understand autism. I never said what I didn't wasn't shitty But I never ever ever did it with malice and if I at all knew he had his game data on that switch, I would not have done it. I didn't even know how. My friend showed me. You think this is some twisted "I'll show him hahaha" but it was literally me reacting in discomfort wondering why my system wasn't the way I left it and looking for a quick fix to the painful itching feeling I got in my body over it.

I've had over 1.5k hours over two pokemon games stolen from me when I was younger, was I upset? Yes. Did I get over it? Yes.

If you truly enjoy a game you'll just do it all again.

Are you with CommBank? If so pretty sure you can contact them directly and explain your situation. Think they will realise the name of the account and the account numbers aren't the same and hopefully sense will prevail.

Can understand your anxiety but I'm 99% sure that if you contact your bank and explain the situation you will get it refunded if it did go to someone else

I think you're looking for an excuse. If you could handle sharing a Switch and having two accounts before, why can you suddenly not stand for him to have an account on the second Switch? Asking people to understand autism is one thing, blaming autism for being an asshole is another.

You really weren't.

>Edit: to those of you commenting about driving under the influence. Notice I said it had been hours. Geez.

No you said a couple of hours. A couple is nowhere near enough for it to leave your system. You would still fail a drugs test, so you were DUI.

I know loads of people who smoke and aren't this reckless with other people's safety.

Grow up, own your shit.

Sometimes i wish i would go home and find out my gamesave file was deleted accidentally by someone i love more than my game file and shinies.

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I suck at regulating/managing my disappointments too. But if I was your boyfriend, I'd still be hundreds of times lucky coming home to you.

I legit laughed out loud lmaooooooo

I don't think you understand autism

Initially, I thought "I'd hate to think how much free time you have on your hands daily if 140 hours isn't that much to you." But then I read how many days you have in WoW and everything cleared up.

Stop mentioning it / bringing it up unless he does. He said he doesn't want to talk about it, but you keep shoving it in his face.

Yes, he has a right to be pissed. Most likely he'll eventually get over it, but you continuously bringing up just because you feel guilty is making it worse. Stop.
If he valued your relationship he will get over it pretty quickly, but that's not going to happen if you -keep bring it up-.

But the instant you think he has a profile on yours it's time to get rid of it, eh?

Sounds like you're a bit selfish and spiteful, even though I 100% believe you didn't mean to delete his primary profile... you still deleted his profile out of spite. Who the hell won't let their partner have a profile on their Switch?

I had a profile on his switch because it was the first one I bought, mainly because he was interested in it for him to play and was 2 years old before I could finally justify buying another so we could play games together. He never got around to removing my old profile.