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I hope you are a teenager. If so, this is the part in your life where you learn to not be a controlling jerk in relationships. Respect your partner. Trust your partner. Encourage your partner to have meaningful friendships that are entirely separate from you.

Not only are you being a controlling boyfriend here, but you seem to be expressing jealousy because she's been able to have a good time without you while you've instead opted to just be bored without her.

Break up with her. She’s gonna break up with you (I only know this because that’s how it usually goes as teenagers when they’re on a “break”. If you’re an adult, attempt to work it out AFTER she’s had her space). This does NOT mean I’m siding with you. It’s just for the best OP. Stay single and work on yourself my friend. No woman deserves this. If you suspected something like this, you have trust issues. I learned that the hard way.

In addition, always keep your guard up. It’s a vice versa situation. We don’t know what the ACTUAL situation is like. We’re just Reddit.

Hey mate, sorry to hear & it sure is stressful! My work involves a lot of bank deposits, so I have seen the occasional deposit in to an incorrect account.
As has been said already, account numbers need to be exact for it to go through. I'm guessing the account number you typed in is only a small typo, so chances are the account doesn't exist as it would all have to match an existing account with that bank (BSB, Account and Suffix). I would say chances are high of it being reversed - good luck!

I wasn't? You assumed so on your own. As stated in my last comment, we all make mistakes. As such, we all join those who have shared on the internet as people who have made mistakes. Not all put it out there. But all do make mistakes.

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I expect there to be all kinds of people on the internet. Those who will call me out for what I'm doing. And those who agree with it and would encourage it. Just kind of leaving it up to the internet to do its thing. Whatever it may be.

You could grow up, let go of her, do some self reflection and self improvement. And find someone else when you are emotionally stable?

> He broke my jaw and my cheek and they got covered in blood. Then my so-called friend told me to piss off and never contact him again. He blocked my number and on Insta as well.

Uh huh.

Truth is, between myself and G1. I work while she does not. If I'm leeching from anyone, it's her mother who also works and gets the bills paid. I do give her mother some money from each of my paychecks so as to contribute. While I also pay for groceries and other house necessities as they come and as I can. I cook and clean here and there. So, in my defense, I'm not totally useless when it comes to contributing.

My issue comes more so in my lack of savings because I just don't see the point 90% of the time. If I die tomorrow and have a million saved, what good did it do me? None. Maybe to the people I leave behind, but to me, nothing. And it's that thought process I've been fighting against in order to do better.

All that said, it has nothing to do with the shitty things I'm doing. My lack of savings and my way of thinking do not excuse me from what's going on. I'm being an asshole and that's that. There will never be an excuse for it.

I do appreciate the advice provided. Thank you. Here's where my mind is at. As soon as I have a place separate from G1, be it an apartment or a car, I will break things off. I will own up to what I've done because she deserves to know. I can't say I will do it before then. I accept that it makes me even more of a shitty person, but I'm just not cut out for life on the streets. Do I deserve it? Yes. But I'm not going down that road. Sorry. I won't be pursuing anything with G2 as she's not the type of girl I'd want to associate myself with if I'm planning on being a better person. I plan to take the time to be alone and consider what I've done, what I plan to do with my life, and basically become self-sustaining before even considering another relationship. And beyond that, make the choice to separate from anyone I do not wish to be with before engaging with anyone else. Will I succeed in all of this? Idk. But I can only work towards and hope to be a better person 1, 2, 5 years from now.

I thought we were talking about a restroom at first

People don't clean it? Mine tells me to do it if I forget. Frustrating to get rid of that message so I just clean it out once every 2 weeks.

I was referencing that you seem to think everyone becomes a mistake on the internet eventually, which is decidedly untrue. You are still a POS.

You need a different therapist. My god.

Yes, we do. Everyone makes mistakes. Some are worse than others. This is among the worst. Not my decision to say what I said. But what is going on beyond that. But everyone makes mistakes. No matter how hard you try to avoid them. Whether you realize it or not. We're all human. We all make mistakes. That doesn't excuse the decisions we make when we make them. But it's just a natural course of human existence.

While I accept what you're saying. You misunderstood what I meant. The decision to say what I said is what I meant here. What I'm doing is just me being a piece of shit. And that is on me. I'll accept that all day.

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If you're already staying/living reasonably close to the beach, you can even apply sunscreen at home/the hotel. I always prefer this over a sandy beach or a hot busy parking lot, if it's possible.

Of course, you may still have to reapply after swimming, it is what it is

> my friend told me she went t the boys room

Who is this “friend” actually? Sounds like they wanted to break you up

This is kinda dramatic...please update with the results

Would NSPCC be able to help you? It sounds like you need a safe place to stay

If it makes you feel better you could think that you didn't really fight for the car but you fought for your principles and that you would have really regretted not doing anything instead.

Now does that mean it was smart? Fuck no. You didn't know if they had a weapon or a gun so you might as well have ended up at the morgue instead of lamenting your broken self esteem and finger.
Especially so considering it wasn't your car or anyone's that you knew for that matter.
And it was property damage so it might be covered by that guy's insurance even.

Yeah you should have kept all of that to yourself lol

I think you need to checkout the kapsalon. I think you will like it.

I learned this when I was a kid and Dame Edna was on TV talking about her Mauve hair. Dame Edna is a character played by comedian Barry Humphries. He's almost 90 now and retired from performing back in 2012. Probably not an act you'd have seen if you're younger.

This is one of few circumstances where my husbands insistence that the only colors are primary and secondary colors would be helpful. He’d have said there’s no such thing as mauve, and I’d have told him to use the green one.