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Yavinite t1_j8gktec wrote

You already have your answer in all the other posts - you signed a contract that it seems like you may not have fully understood? The car was never actually 25k, it looks like the actual price was closer to 27k and then you got a service agreement and some aftermarket things and taxes. Yes, you should have brought someone with you that understands these things.

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generalmarius t1_j8gjzqw wrote

If you think you will see the person there then it wouldn’t hurt to restate your apology in person briefly as you get there or even have your boyfriend do it if you would be uncomfortable. Ultimately it’s not that big of a deal and I’m sure they will take it in stride whether or not you mention it again.

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fuckimtrash t1_j8gjogx wrote

It’s not racist. I’m nz Indian and I’d hang up if I got an outbound call from someone with an Indian accent. Was hell for my Indian workmates when we worked in govt and they had to make outbound calls to the public 😂😂

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Vast_Reflection t1_j8g7zxg wrote

Maybe try to figure out why you don’t have those feelings for anyone else? Now that you know it is possible for you to feel that way, it might be that those people have hurt you in ways that are incompatible with love. And that doesn’t have to do with you being broken or incomplete or missing something that others have, it has to do with troubled people not knowing how to appreciate and love you in the way you deserve. It might be the situation/location/the people you are around, so maybe changing those around would help you?

I definitely know that feeling. It took me a really long time to find people I connected with, and when they left, it left a hole in my life that is very hard to fill. I’ve found some things that help, hobbies, spending time with friends, and my pets. But it’s still lonely at times. I found a therapist and that’s been helping. I have hope that my life will be different than what it is like now. Things can be different. For both of us :)

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