It’s cruel to force some cats to stay inside.

Neighbor had an auto repair business (see screenshots in thread above). No indication that they intended to hurt the cat.

Neighbor had an auto repair business (in screenshots of ops original story). No indication that they intended to hurt the cat.

OP let their cat out despite knowing full well that their neighbor had an auto repair business. They are 100% responsible for the cat entering the neighbors property and poisoning itself.

Take note redditors, this is an actual example of gaslighting, it’s not just “when someone disagrees with you”.

You need to do something to help your neighbor if this is real because this is 100% your fuckup, all of it. You let your cat outside, despite knowing the neighbor leaves out antifreeze, and the inevitable happened. Cats are not outside pets (for a variety of reasons you can easily google.) Please learn from this mistake with the new cat.

Those can be mutually exclusive though. You could have every good intention in the world to respect one’s boundaries, but if you forget those boundaries through no fault of your own, how can one continue to respect them?

You can’t blame someone for forgetting. You can’t expect someone to journal every night and affirmations every morning in order to remember. It’s not their fault.

Sorry but I have a bad memory as well and I empathize. I sometimes forget crazily important shit that you’d think one wouldn’t ever forget, but I do and it ends up embarrassing me, so I feel for OP.

I didn’t say she claimed to kill her cat, I said she’s the one who killed her cat through negligence and neglect

he said he would rather live with a semi runny nose in order for me to be happy.

Plus he bought a cat that is suppose to not aggravate allergies.

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Seems petty. If you have proof he intentionally left it out to kill the cat I would present that information to the appropriate authority.

How is your husband allergic to cats but yet bought you another one?

I repeat - where did she claim she was the cat murderer?

Robocop thinks your old post said that you killed your own cat. Not sure where he/she got that from. It says nothing in your original post.

>original story

I don't see anywhere that OP claimed to be the one to kill the cat. WTF are you talking about?

Hmmm. I have mixed feelings about this one. I can see both sides of it and there's a horrible inevitability about it. Tragedy all round :(

Cause I can edit it and make sure to include everything.

It’s his own property. This is on OP for being a negligent pet owner.

sometimes you can be the asshole but still in the right

Fuck no! Fuck that dick head. Have a drink and a relaxing evening, your good!

What all did I leave out that is so important?

You deserve all the hate you get, stop telling half truths to get sympathy and upvotes. It’s just more shitty behavior.

She absolutely is twisting the story here’s the last version she told https://imgur.com/a/wenU09a

Thanks

I posted it in pro revenge - broke a rule no good.

Posted it in nuclear and getting a lot of hate

Posted it in AMIA - got taken down.

Tired of the automatic take downs and word sensitivity.

Seriously and OP is disregarding her own culpability in these series of events. If you know you had to tell your neighbors 4 times to put away anti-freeze, then why do you continue to let your cat out unattended? Who knows if this guy had the stuff in his garage and didn't expect someone else's animal to be in there?

Im sure you didn’t, as a favor to you save you the trouble of retyping it I linked to screenshots of your original story