he is interested sexually in other women. he still wants to play. the girlfriend on the other hand should not try to control this. if he is still interested in `playing he is not ready for a committed relationship.

wait, so a man is still interested sexually in other women in a committed relationship. do I deduce that he still wants to play ? yes. and I said that this is perfectly ok and that his girlfriend should not control this. this is not something that she can change on demand. so now you think that I am a control freak. weird.

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everyone. I am a woman. why would I look at boobs at the beach? Prepare to be shocked: there are naturalists who are butt naked when they bath. i lived in japan you are naked when you bathe with women or mixed genders so with men as well. Do you think people look at each others' genitals there? jesus. so immature. Everyone has genitals you stop staring at them after you come to terms with your sexuality.

Catalina makes a solid boat

1978 was the first year of the 25, do you have a really low hull number (either way, she is definitely a keeper)? Fixed or swing keel?

Go with it. Assert your dominance.

I think her "rule" is unrealistic. You'll be looking at other women in public all the time. Some will be showing cleavage.

If you're on a diet, you'll be looking at ice cream and cookies in stores, in movies, and from people around you.

Glancing at something isn't the same as touching it.

Well username checks out because you are a nub at reading comprehension. They did not say that AT ALL.

I’m actually amazed that you read their comment and came to the conclusion that they said “it suggests cheating is somehow OK”.

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You're on the internet in 2023. I don't care who you are, a half-naked woman is bound to pop up from time to time.

There is always some bozo that sends a dick pic to his grandma or some girl that sends her x rated pics to a church group.

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The good news is: My boat doesn't get jealous if I appreciate the fine lines of another boat.

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I didn't say that at all, I was explaining the difference between boundaries and rules.

Most, though not all, romantic relationships have monogamy as a rule.

Prepare to be shocked: Women also look at the boobs of other women on the beach. Do you think everyone who looks at boobs on the beach is immature or just the ones in relationships?

From your comment I have deduced you are a control freak and believe yourself to always be correct in every situation. See how that works?

My wife has no problem with me looking at scantily clad women online. However, I wouldn't outright stare at another female walking by. That's just rude.

I’d have asked the email to go no further and fuck the slack guy. Hope they fuck up and suffer

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Does she cover his eyes if they're watching a movie where there is female nudity? How about if they're at the beach? It isn't as if OP's watching hardcore porn or wasting money on strippers. Honestly, this is a stupid boundary and when she has a better understanding of men she will realize this and set realistic ones.

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