The key to handling any embarrassing situation is to lean into it. Don't show you are embarrassed and you will come off as playful rather than ashamed of your situation.

Seriously, very easy fix here -

HANG OUT WITH OTHER PEOPLE. If you’re an adult, How are you getting bullied? Go somewhere else. You are in charge of your own life. Sure (if you continue hanging around these assholes) the MIGHT continue to rag you for this, but if their collective lives are so small that they cannot move beyond this one thing, they aren’t going far and you can trust they won’t follow your future.

Its still illegal taking nudes photos of you in the shower in France, even more to share them without consent.

Also its not a big deal, but you can pursue legal action. Nobody is gonna laugh or actually care about those pics

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#1 Dont hang anymore with the idiots and ignore them, you dont neef them

#2 Sharing nude images without consent is a crime in you country

#3 Nobody really does care or want to see your weird shower nude pictures

You are fine, looks like some assholes and thats it. Its no big deal* dont give it any importance and ignore it or/and pursue legal action if needed.

Also, avoid drinking that much and be positive, this is nothing really

If this gets posted online in my country (Canada) it would be revenge porn, legally. It's a felony (indictable offense, technically).

I'm not sure about France, though. Look up the laws and contact the police. If you can afford to hire a lawyer or a paralegal to write a nastygram, send them all cease and desist notices.

I was bullied for the entirety of my pre-high school life by the entire class for no other reason than being a relatively easy target.

The only thing you can do is take it in stride and at least act like you don't care. Bullying will never be rooted out completely unfortunately, kids are kids with undeveloped brains, some people never grow up either.

I used to have suicidal thoughts back then too but it didn't take impressive mental gymnastics to figure out that aside from constant excruciating pain, nothing is worth the burden and emotional damage you inflict on the people who care about you for life.

I certainly know it isn't easy but once you get over it you will be stronger and socially smarter for it, trust me. In a nutshell, never become a complete doormat, people will walk over you for the rest of your life.

P.S. approximately 79% of men are growers instead of showers, could use that as a small quip if confronted about it.

This statement makes zero sense lol

Jus tell them, I'm team blood

It was my first time drinking

and the last :/

thanks but I'm not an alcoholic just a dumbass that wanted to drink like i don't know... every young people? like i knew that all of them weren't my friend but i just wanted to enjoy a party you know? did i really played a stupid game? for what? wanting to enjoy myself? didn't i just got unlucky?

i don't know maybe i was dumb and you're right i've always had what i consider now a bad habit that is being optimistic about people,that bullying was just because kids are dumb but i was wrong

today i fucked up! :(

Just tell people that you were in a pool. Like scream it in a high pitched nasal voice "I was in a pool!!"

70% of the time it works every time. 👌

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You have a couple options then, ignore that it happened and assume that it will be forgotten in time, find new friends or report this to the authorities and ask for legal counsel.

Also, I reiterate, get mental health guidance for your drinking issues and your mention of suicide.

i did that but i was drunk and the shower had a curtain i was trying to close it but they opened it again and again and because i was drunk i didn't tought that by trying to close the curtain i was stopping to covering up..

Yeah I’m pretty sure they broke laws. You can go that route. You can go the violent route. First off you need to ask yourself why you felt the need to party with shitty people. If they’re the cool kids. They take pictures of people in the shower. You don’t want to be cool with them. So there’s no need to get blasted trying to be cool. Well you also are learning a lesson about alcohol. Never get that fucked up. You didn’t lock a door. People shouldn’t take showers at a party.

People don’t care man. You’ll be fine. Give no fucks. It happened. If you don’t care. They’ll follow suit. It may seem like a big deal. Trust me. It isn’t.

Lol. Did you even read my message? No mistake was made.

Take your hands.. place them over the area of your genitals, and tell them to get the fuck out.

In either case, if this is true.. then rethink your actions. There is a reason people assumed you were underaged, as I did. Play stupid games and win stupid prizes.

That being said, if suicide is in your post, then seek professional help, not Reddit.

i'm afraid of being bullied by boys and girl alike,the girl bullying me at the party was kicking me between my legs laughing and saying "for what you have lol"

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I had some friends at the party

Its not somehow they are bullies didn't know that they would go and take pictures,what do you mean cover-up?

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and why the fuck would i lie about that this is humiliating,if i wanted to lie i would have said something like that under that shower people saw that i have a horsec**ck and now every girl in town wants some and i have multiple harems, my story is not glorifying, since when guys lie on the internet in my way? generally its: "9 inch flaccid bro"

If this were a woman it would likely result in arrest for those flaunting the pictures. File a complaint.

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This doesn’t make much sense to me at all. Just to follow, you are at a party with a bunch of people who are not your friends.. why? You get drunk.. okay.. you ‘end up’ in a cold shower somehow.. people end up in the bathroom with you taking pictures.. somehow. You don’t cover up, for some reason.. and now you go on Reddit being suicidal?

Hmmmmm…

You have one post on Reddit…

HMMMM..

People are too friendly here, and gullible.

BRUH i'm NEVER drinking again you can't trust anyone