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fauxfurgopher OP t1_j6oyzs2 wrote

I think you just have to say it to them a lot. And reward them with petting and treats when they respond. Also, some cats are smarter than others. Although… hmm. We have one cat who is a little feather-brained, but even she knows her name. I must be accidentally good at reinforcing their names.

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Thick_Information_33 t1_j6oxr53 wrote

Life rule: when you tell someone a secret, it is no longer a secret. Do not be shocked if you hear it everywhere. Always expect it to become public information as soon as you disclose it. If you wanted it to be kept secret, you would have kept your mouth shut about your private matters.

On topic - most guys I know from high school did that. It’s very basic and horny teens do anything to appease their Hormonal Overlords. Both guys and girls.

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peckerlips t1_j6oxgjn wrote

This.

After care is just as important for the dom as it is for the sub. OP feels bad for pushing his gf past the limits because she didn't stay to talk it out and come down from the intensity.

Gf also needs to learn limits. Not only her pain threshold, but what actions are allowed to be punished for. It's incredibly unhealthy that she decided it would be okay to play with fire, just to get punished.

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