Oh my oh my

If only you got a dollar every time

Dude deleted his profile lol hope he realizes how fucked up this is

Also, if he brought his dog in that much and everybody liked said dog, it would have been a good idea to share that information in a comfortable way for him to avoid conversations like that. You’re not in the wrong here. That being said maybe if you find yourself in this weird scenario again try “hey it’s been a while since we’ve seen dog, is everything ok?”

As someone who is good friends with a german, he'd laugh for a bit before giving your ass more of a whopping than the Big Whopper at burger king

Working as intended is not an opinion.

You think the crypto space has more scams and influence of greed than traditional finance markets. Get real.

You've got it all figured out. Peak Brain. Congratulations.

This isn't your FU. On a bed is a perfectly reasonable place to leave your belongings. If I left $100 on the living room table it would remain there. Nobody who I consider family or a friend would take it. For that matter nobody who I consider a decent person would take it.

Your brother and mother have problems. Problems you need to get away from. When you are old enough you need to put a safe distance between you and them. Don't be afraid to seek therapy, yourself. Your step father is trouble too but in a different way. Keeping quiet when you know something is unjust happening before you is also bad. He is likely insecure, fearful in his relationship with your mother. In a real relationship people are not afraid to disagree. I'm sure he is very kind to you but not there for you when you need it.

Overreacting to almost burning the house down stupidly when he just moved in? No he reacted appropriately. His feelings are justified and she did something stupid that could’ve cost lives.

Can you talk to your Stepdad? Maybe he will pay you back or buy you the Valleyfair tickets.

I hope you have 1 adult in your life that isn’t total trash.

It's $150. You two are 16 and 17, not 6 and 7. Get a part time job and you two will make that in a week.

Sure, what he and your mom did was shitty, and you're entirely within your rights to hold them responsible and try and get it back. But, in the grand scheme of things, it's a tiny amount of money.

Its not just learning what to say. It's learning to say much of anything. It took me ages to break being submissive and say things had gone to far.

Pain I could put up with to any extent really and much like ops girlfriend sounds if I was in a bad place in life, it potentially travels into the I hate myself and deserve this space. Rather than just haha I'm so naughty punish me daddy space. It's also really hard to not escalate the pain as you've already taken x before and you feel like a failure if one day you're super sensitive.

But choking I could tell my bf really liked and I enjoyed the high, no amount really gave me discomfort. But I'd be on the verge of passing out and be like "well I don't want to ruin it for him" and not try to communicate at all. Which was all well and good until ya know... passed out.

Not the best way to have to really work on talking. Was hard for me as my limits alwyas been above partners and I literally didn't know how to say anything in sub space, the words just wouldn't come out.

Eh. Sometimes brain doesn't brain. You'll laugh about it together in a few weeks or months. And if not they need to reassess their attachment to countertop appliances.

There's no need to resent them. And bugger the forgiveness and understanding. What's more to understand than her brother is a thieving piece of shit, her mum is a narcissist and her dad has no spine.

If she shuts those arseholes out of her life then she won't be thinking about them.

It should be said repeatedly forgiving toxic people is poisonous to oneself.

Rip

I’d be willing to pitch in too since most of the comments here don’t seem to be very helpful. It’s an horrible situation where minors are abused by those who should be protecting them. OP let us know if there’s a way to get tickets for you and your sister?

What a little shit, your folks fucking suck for not only allowing it but aiding him in bringing him to the bank like wtf. I’ll gladly donate to get you and your sister that pass. Idk if you have PayPal or Cash App or Zelle but I have all 3 so lmk.

That's a very difficult cleaning of the pipes if I've ever heard one.

Girl, you got daddy issues.

You're the better person for having exactly those morals.

It's pretty clear your family treat your sister and you like shit. Any chance either of you could work towards moving out together when you've got more money behind you?

About 10 years ago I knew of a young lady not much older than your sister who moved out and took her much younger sister with her because of similar circumstances. She worked hard to provide for the two of them, getting assistance from a foodbank and the Salvos and friends.

My own two older sisters constantly stole from me as a kid. One even got addicted to drugs and hocked the stuff she stole from me to feed the habit. I don't consider them family now. They never changed. Might have the same blood, but they're not family.

time to save up for a door knob with 2 keys

She is a minor, her parents can do whatever they want with the money. It's legally impossible to steal from your own minor children (with some exceptions like a trust fund for example). Police can't do anything even if they wanted. That's the current law.

That's not true. Know several people still with their highschool significant other. All are happy, successful, and have beautiful families. And that's just in my own friend group.

She did establish the finders keepers rule. While plainly personal property isn't respected, this should be valid. However, with how the parents are, planning for that to blow up would be a good idea.

The parent's hypocrisy is amazing. I'm sorry. You're having to deal with this. Sadly the best advice I have is persevere in getting good grades and go to college and get a good career you can get a good job you can support yourself on and you'll have a good life. It will get better. I'm sorry you can't trust your family to not steal from you.

But ten years in, the dog will still need help with shitting.

You didn't fuck anything up, your sister did, and it sounds like she needs to be on some kind of medication.

But I find it really cool your parents enjoyed Death Note.

Safe word, absolutely yes. But is no one talking about how she almost burnt the house down? And that her actual beahviour is becoming increasingly reckless and erratic? Surely there's something bigger at play here that should be addressed beyond a safe word?