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Notexactlyanoob t1_jbf3yox wrote
Reply to comment by Pretend-Bread-8856 in Richmond pretty decent tippers by ExtremeHobo
Yes, in effect, to the customer (who already tip appropriately), the prices wont be raised because they will be paying the same. Thats why I said aside from the psychological aspect (of seeing a higher number on the menu), the ACTUAL price they pay will remain the same.
For people who dont tip 20%, yeah, they will pay more, that doesnt bother me. If they could afford to eat before with however they tipped, but cant with a forced 20% "tip" baked into the price, maybe they should stay home. For those that typically tip more than 20? You can still tip additional for excellent service unless its against the business policy to accept tips. Like everywhere else in the world.
So try again?
Pretend-Bread-8856 t1_jbf3nb6 wrote
Reply to comment by Notexactlyanoob in Richmond pretty decent tippers by ExtremeHobo
You litterally said “but they are not raising prices” lol
Notexactlyanoob t1_jbf3hei wrote
Reply to comment by Pretend-Bread-8856 in Richmond pretty decent tippers by ExtremeHobo
Sigh. If you raise prices by 20% and people who used to tip 20% dont have to tip anymore, they will be paying the same price. How hard is that to understand?
And yes, tipping was established 100% to benefit restaurants at the expense of the staff. But anecdotal data is worth what its worth.
Pretend-Bread-8856 t1_jbf2eoi wrote
Reply to comment by Notexactlyanoob in Richmond pretty decent tippers by ExtremeHobo
So they are gonna pay 20% of gross receipts to waitstaff and not raise prices? Ok buddy love to hear how you expect that to work. Waited tables for over a decade, the percentage of folks who stiffed me was less then a quarter of a percent. Cooking, I gave up so much of my life and got so little in return. If my business fails I know I can return to waiting tables and be ok. I am not concerned with the history of tipping, I just know that the combined history of the system of american labor has lead us to the point where waiting tables is my only other viable skill to rely on. I dont know why you are being so hostile.
Notexactlyanoob t1_jber8lu wrote
Reply to comment by J-Colio in Richmond pretty decent tippers by ExtremeHobo
Seems a little dismissive, but ok. If people cared, they'd tip better. Everything else is an excuse. In this case, a long one.
J-Colio t1_jber4n6 wrote
Reply to comment by Notexactlyanoob in Richmond pretty decent tippers by ExtremeHobo
That's rough. People are too proud to admit that they're trash at math.
I'm biased. I'm an engineer and in my experience even many of my peers have a questionable grasp on math. If I'm questioning how good at math the people who are widely accepted as being legitimately dang good at math are, then I really gotta assume that people are normally REALLY bad at math...
Our scores as a country support this rationale. The general population is plainly bad at math. When you see the Karens of Facebook complaining about new methods to teach math - they're probably horrible at math. We're not going to improve our scores by teaching the same way that got our scores so low to begin with...
We're left with people who are bad at math who are too proud to admit that they can't figure out something as simple as 20% in their heads - I don't think they want to use their phones because then they're admitting it. You know? Multiplication and division are grade-school math. You want a 35 year old guy with 2 kids admitting he can't do grade school math in front of his kids? You want some hotshot yuppie taking his tinder date out for drinks to whip out his phone and proudly proclaim that numbers scare him? You want a proud independent woman who's run her own business for the last 10 years to admit she still has anxiety dreams about math-tests in front of clients?
I don't think it's malice or mal-intent. I don't think anyone WANTS to be a bad tipper (unless they're going full Karen). I would think (hope) the reason is more plain-Jane hubris. They want to tip. They don't want to bankrupt themselves. They don't accept numbers, so they go with their gut instead knowing they won't go broke.
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raindeerpie t1_jbeplu9 wrote
Reply to comment by TomCruiseIsAnSP in Richmond pretty decent tippers by ExtremeHobo
people tip 20%?!?
meowmeow_now t1_jbenfme wrote
Reply to comment by J-Colio in Richmond pretty decent tippers by ExtremeHobo
I did this my whole life and stingy assholes who insist on tipping 18.5% or some dumb shit would be angry I was tipping too much.
Notexactlyanoob t1_jbekalf wrote
Reply to comment by Pretend-Bread-8856 in Richmond pretty decent tippers by ExtremeHobo
But they aren't raising prices. People (who tipped as they should) will still be paying the same, psychological perceptions aside. Tipping was created 100% to benefit the restaurants, not the customers or the employees. Do you know the history of how it came about? Why do you defend the practice? And how it it fair when you have to rely on others who can literally screw you out of good pay for a shift/table because they are assholes. Really fair that. Dont trust a boss who can be held accountable but trust rando strangers who aren't. Bugger off defending tipping as a practice.
I will tip minimum 20% as a starting point as long as it IS the practice for the US, and youre an asshole if you dont, but to defend it? Thats flipping dumb.
7SlotGrill t1_jbek1ax wrote
Reply to Richmond pretty decent tippers by ExtremeHobo
I'm 25% walking in the door. It either goes up or down depending on the service and food/drink. Granted, the wait staff can't help it if the kitchen sucks but their attitude does effect the outcome.
To be honest, I've not had to deal with shitty wait staff, but food on the other hand...
Notexactlyanoob t1_jbejvuz wrote
Reply to comment by J-Colio in Richmond pretty decent tippers by ExtremeHobo
If people are too dumb to figure out 20%, with literally everyone having a calculator in their pockets, and THATS the reason they haven't been tipping 20, this tip isnt gonna make em do it. Cause that aint the reason.
Affectionate-Body960 t1_jbejrcd wrote
Reply to Richmond pretty decent tippers by ExtremeHobo
20% is the bare minimum this is so sad
TomCruiseIsAnSP t1_jbegiyv wrote
Reply to Richmond pretty decent tippers by ExtremeHobo
Who doesn’t tip 20%
57duck t1_jbeepdg wrote
Colt1911-45 t1_jbec8cq wrote
Reply to Richmond pretty decent tippers by ExtremeHobo
I keep seeing Cleveland come up all over. I even get a Cleveland subreddit pop up in my feed. I have heard it's similar to Richmond. I may need to go visit. Damn you Cleveland Tourist Board and your excellent marketing team!
Miss_Marna t1_jbe7t9q wrote
Reply to Chimborazo Elementary by Lavenderev
I volunteered several times pre-covid. It's a mixed school and the parents are very involved and trying to make it great. For middle, many kids go on to just attend Franklin Military Academy or they go private. But if you are moving to Church Hill with an elementary-aged kid, you'll more than likely move to the burbs for middle and high school. That's the traditional migration pattern. Oh - if you have money, you may want to also check out Central Montessori on 20th.
oh_hello_rva t1_jbe4eib wrote
Reply to Chimborazo Elementary by Lavenderev
We love it, the principal's awesome, breakfast and lunch are free (so no having to pack!), and there are tons of amazing teachers who give 100% to engage the kids. Check out the school's Instagram and the PTA's Instagram to get more of a feel for what's going on around school. And above all, contact the office to schedule a tour. Walking around a school yourself is worth much more than anything you'll read online.
On a broader note, here's a long comment I wrote about RPS about two years ago, and I still stand by it. There are problems, absolutely. But there were problems in my Chesterfield County schools growing up too, and I grew up happy (what matters, imo) and what the world would consider "successful" too. Come be a part of the families in RPS who're showing up, supporting our schools, and helping to improve them for everyone.
nazsquad t1_jbe2qvy wrote
Reply to Richmond pretty decent tippers by ExtremeHobo
If only we had pretty decent employers that would just pay their employees well.
oddistrange t1_jbdvatk wrote
Reply to comment by icepick314 in Richmond pretty decent tippers by ExtremeHobo
I'm always offended when I'm filling out an online form and it auto-fills "Richmond County, VA" when I type just "Richmond" and then tab to get to the next field.
memorex00 t1_jbd97xx wrote
Reply to comment by -jxw- in RVA Chipotle’s are the WORST by CoffeeFiendd
More like in 2011. 2000s were the golden years of Chipotle.
Naive_Profile_3250 t1_jbd7ay0 wrote
lame_gaming t1_jbcwr7h wrote
Reply to A shot of RVA using a night vision filter as well as a cinematic ND filter on my camera by OcelotRoyal
fr nuclear apocalypse vibes
MisterPinguSaysHello t1_jbcrtv8 wrote
Reply to A shot of RVA using a night vision filter as well as a cinematic ND filter on my camera by OcelotRoyal
What is a night vision filter...?
RVAblues t1_jbcrrft wrote
Reply to Chimborazo Elementary by Lavenderev
Our good friends’ kids go there. Super tight-knit school with a great parent network.
-B001- t1_jbfhues wrote
Reply to comment by lame_gaming in A shot of RVA using a night vision filter as well as a cinematic ND filter on my camera by OcelotRoyal
yea like this is the city ... but the people are all gone!