He wouldn't be my BF anymore, I would set him free!!!

This is my personal opinion. Sex is a two way street I finish you finish. Unless you talk before and one Is horny and the other isn't really but wants to satisfy you by making you cum then I think its okay for one to go to sleep right after. What I definitely see wrong was the way she talked to you and treated you right after you allowed her to finish.

Weird…

Knowing in laws in person , by dinner or holidays not a daily text or calls!!

If you're concerned then you're concerned. There's no "she should be free to do whatever she likes". That's not what a relationship is. The only people who tell you that are shady people who can't be trusted.

You are not a hostage here. You can end a relationship for any reason. You can be unhappy about the way she chews her food and ask her to change it to stop annoying you. You don't have to be afraid to voice your displeasure about something.

I think you are pretty immature and play stupid tic for tact games. You were upset that he went to a strip club so you started texting your ex. Same field is just an excuse to cover.

He is upset that you not only started texting your ex but then talked to him about him. How did you want him to respond? With hurt or anger?

Grow up and talk to him like an adult about how him going to the strip club hurt you and stop playing high school games.

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Why is she so angry? What is really bothering her? Have you asked? What does she say?

You're allowed to find it gross, and not every guy likes it (or every woman hates it). That said, what are you looking for here? So you want to ask him to leave the room when his friends talk about it? That's an impractical boundary, and at that point it somes more like an issue with him as a person. Maybe you are not compatible.

Funny thing is all of my stuff is pretty much still packed. I’m thinking about it. Cause it’s stopping me from doing what I want and he mentally drains me.

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I posted another thing with signs of me thinking he’s cheating. There’s so many signs but he denies it. I try to communicate with him but it’s turns into a fight.

Updateme!

It can be valid for her to be busy and not message much, but it’s just as valid that you need more. Compatible communication styles and equal effort are really important in the early days.

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Have you two tried couple's therapy? It sounds like neither of you wants to be apart, but aren't able to function when you're together which is exactly what it's about. It doesn't make you bad people for doing it. There's no shame in therapy.

not necessarily but something big has to change so you can both be happy in the relationship. Like others have suggested, possibly a housekeeper, dog walker, professional caretaker, etc. but all of that relies on money so it may also become a financial burden as well

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This is a wall of red flags, dump him now before it becomes too late. You already lost a lot, don't lose more.

Kinda sounds like a scam website lol

Just let him know that you might have a solution to his mind being his own worst enemy and if he’s willing to be open minded.

He can go to a doctor or there’s plenty of options online that will prescribe.

It’s personally helped me get over my own issues during sex. Only used it 3 times and I was back to normal

Yes, it's a horrible idea. You're holding onto a version of your relationship that is dead. You're not making connections with your current or new friends because you're holding onto him. You're keeping yourself stuck in the past and putting an idealized version of him on a pedestal. You need to cut him off and move on. Consider therapy if that's an option.

Ooops can’t even spot where I said parents