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lil-peanutbutter t1_iyfbznm wrote

Reply to Do I have to make him dinner? by [deleted]

Why don’t you make enough for him, set it aside, and he can warm it back up when he gets home. You not doing anything besides maybe a little meat is selfish and he will see it and get tired of living with someone who doesn’t care about him.

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alexkartman t1_iyfbw4a wrote

Reply to Sexless relationship by Lower_Ad_170

A lot of times that is really a psychological problem. May not have anything to do with you at all.

My advice is I* would have him take Viagra (Sildenafil is generic). I think in his case only a half pill should be fine as he can initially get hard but his mind is preventing him from staying hard.

This can give him back his confidence during sex and he shouldn’t need it more than a few times until he’s back to normal.

*not a doctor or healthcare professional

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UsuallyWrite2 t1_iyfbrss wrote

Reply to Sex problem with wife by My_Loud_Coworker

Wow, it’s almost like she’s most men. 🙄

She’s not required to have sex she doesn’t want to have. If it was a one off , move on. If this is a regular issue then time for a sit down.

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LifeOfHex t1_iyfbr6v wrote

Reply to In less than a year since breaking up my ex has a new bf and Im all alone. How do I stop myself from jumping in front of a train? by -The-Gambler-

Look here, you better talk to me about whats going on and we can talk openly about our mutual stories and see if we can help one another out.

Because I know the feeling and how absolutely destructive we could feel instead of trying to fix ourselfs to one day be better for someone instead of feeling like we need someone to make us better.

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Gold-Yak-5380 t1_iyfbqc2 wrote

Reply to comment by StateParkBrigade in Boyfriend is mad at me because it makes me uncomfortable hearing about his friends' sex lives by [deleted]

I'm still trying to talk to him about it but he says it's pointless and dumb and I guess to an extent, it is, but it just makes me feel like gross? I dunno. Should I keep trying or just accept the fact that it is what it is? His responses are just "okay" and "yeah well _____" so it's quite clear that he's not in a position to have understanding for me in this situation I think

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