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Thank you so much for showing empathy to my situation

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That doesn’t make any sense. What would cause him to think you’re infertile? Did you mention you thought you were?

So he was willing to try for a baby because he thought it’d never happen? I feel like we’re missing some info here.

I’ve been married almost 20 years and I can count the number of times I’ve called my FIL on one hand. And we don’t have a “ bad” relationship.

I needed advice on this situation which is actually quite important to me. I want to know if I’m this situation people side with me or not

I'd tell you to be honest. You may not like yourself so much for saying your truth, you may be embarrassed about it, but at the end of the day if you're willing to put your ego aside and learn then a guy is going to generally think better of you.

No one comes fully equipped with all the skills necessary to be a good partner. You have to grow and learn just like everyone else.

That you are crying over someone else's haircut is extremely weird. Do you often flip out about changes that don't affect you?

Cried? Really? What are we talking here, long hair to shoulders or a full on half pink half blue half shaved weed wacked nightmare? .... Still nothing to cry over. Get your shit together because life is going to get a lot harder and uncomfortable than a gfs haircut. You have clearly never struggled with anything before if this upsets you that much.

Sorry you had to deal with that kind of abuse. It's amazing that you have this patience with your dad and still desire that he be a part of your life.

If you still at home, you need to move out and separate yourself from this abuse. Counseling/therapy will be helpful. You can invite your parents to be a part of your life, but have healthy boundaries and make them clear to your parents. Let them know how your dad's abusive behavior affects you and that you need to have boundaries . Might even be a good idea to write it in a letter so they have time to reflect on it before responding. Best wishes to you.

You're seriously asking me what??

You really need to get your head examined...that's what!!

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Focus on the non superficial things you like about her. If her hair was it for you, and the only thing you liked about her to the point you're unhappy with her, move on from the relationship.

> Did I do the right thing by leaving?

Oh?

Also rules 1 & 2. You provided no detail, and didn't ask for advice for a specific situation.

Outrage troll post.

Interesting question, and probably a confusing answer! I had a single mentality but was “casual” with someone I was massively falling for. I could have slept with or dated whoever I wanted during that time, I just didn’t because the perfect woman was already in my life. I had my barriers up as I’d had my life turned upside down in past breakups. I had just gotten to the stage in my life where I was content and in control I.e. job, house, cat, friends. I was scared to make it official because that label comes with obligations, expectations and I didn’t want to get my hopes up.

Don't be worried that you'll suck - that's the whole point!

Every guy is going to like different things, so just try something and ask for feedback. And don't just say "is that good?" Because he'll say yes.

Ask him does he want it slower? Faster? Wetter? A tighter grip?

But honestly, as long as you're not scraping him with your teeth, It's going to feel good.

Can you feel how wet you make me? If you can tell he is loving a move you're doing you can say Tell me how good it/my pussy/body feels..encourage him to talk.

Stop calling my children “products of cheating” just say something different rather than labelling them and it’s better for him if he thinks they are all his

She's fucking crazy, ghost her.

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What?

BDSM is a wide range and your labels are up to you, but if she's sending you to the room so she can handle her family without you she's absolutely a little bit your domme lol.

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