Tell your husband that. He deserves to make a choice based on the truth...don't steal that from him too.

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Where is the child?

> She said that I was being cold and not showing her love and giving her attention the way she wanted

This is probably a lie. She needed a quick excuse.

> saying she’s done

I'm sorry man. This is a very quick/abrupt ending seemingly. Doesn't sound like she wanted to try and make it work at all. Most couples with issues would go to therapy etc or you would've seen this coming. My strong guess is she has another guy and made some bullshit excuse.

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I’m not justifying what i did i fucked up real bad and i feel so much remorse and I would never wanna put someone through that pain again. But i was seriously hurt too. My trust was broken by him and he made me insecure. We both fucked up and hurt each other. I don’t understand why you’re attacking me? I just wanted some advice

Absolutely the right thing. 🙏🙏

Dentist

I have thought about it.. I’m skeptical though..

I would go with Google. My wife and I had an old one years ago, but I don't think it is still available.

"Self respect". The term hasn't even entered my head this whole time. Shit...

If she’s your professor in college and teaching you I’d wait. Finish with the class. If you’re not in any of her classes you’re fine

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Seek therapy immediately, your wife has been using you all this time. Always remember that DNA doesn’t make a father the actions of the person makes a good father. You can still be a great dad but divorced from your serial cheating wife

Try taking him to a place where he can interact with dogs

Don’t let anything get beyond “normal” until you’re no longer her student.

Love will wait. It’s far better to be able to honestly say that you didn’t start your relationship until after she stopped teaching you. She could literally go to prison over this. It’s not a small thing.

No wtf? Sorry some of us make mistakes and we can’t all be perfect like you.. but if someone regrets their mistake it still means nothing?

I understand she's bi, but to be honest idk a girl who hasn't done that when she's drunk. Your gf might not have thought that you'd look at that as cheating, but more of a way that she thought may turn you on? I only think you should continue the relationship if you're not going to always throw it in her face that that had happened.

Before ending it outright, have a conversation with her. To you this is unbelievable, to her it was an acceptable behavior in the past that was encouraged. You two have a lot to talk about with boundary establishment and understanding each other better. Might be something that strengthens your relationship with improved communication instead of throwing it away because of your differences that were not discussed.

Heeeey so I know you're technically an adult and all, but as your teacher and the older person, she has a duty of care towards you. Allowing a romantic relationship to even become a thought is unethical on her part. It's not a good sign of who she is as a person.

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