All girls say this nonsense at least those under the age of 30. Once they start losing their looks they tend to start realising looks aren't the be all end all

Yes exactly, I understand it being a self worth issue. And no judgement to that, everyone is prone to it. Again, relationships/flings/etc. are not logical and can not be rationalized as a such.

But recognizing that it was so bad and so low and then just bringing it up later in a very fond light, especially repeatedly is just a lot for me.

Sounds like it’s time for another talk then

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That's the strange part- she actually doesn't go much for looks, but the emotional connection. I've heard and seen some stuff but I don't understand this person in particular.

Sounds like he's single to me.

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Thanks again, it really puts my mind to ease!

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Jesus Christ man dont be a doormat, leave her and run for your life

Right just to spice it up I’m a lot younger than he is and I’m going through this. He’s 32 and I’m 19.

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Well if you feel yourself wobble, just remind yourself that for all you know his Tinder account bore lots of fruit and he’s been bonking himself silly behind your back for years, exposing you to sexual risk. The pictures in my mind would be very effective at squashing any remaining feelings. And I equally wouldn’t give him any more of my mental energy or time. Look forward, and make your moves to a better future.

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If they joke about it it might be just them trying to get over it themselves. Like convincing themselves it was not that serious and that they are OK now.

And if them keeping in contact bothers you you should ask why they are keeping them in their lives.

This relationship is bad. You don't trust him, he's yelling at you and threatening to leave...it's a mess. You'd be happier without this drama.

Oh, so it takes therapy to know what you’re doing is wrong now. So I guess cheating THEN going to the therapy makes it all better. Gtfo, your boyfriend at the very least deserves to speak to a hot girl on a dating app to see if the grass is greener. As you did to him.

It isn't just about age. There are also the concerns about abuse of authority, and about unfairness to other students.

Break up

That's what I would say but unfortunately with children it gets complicated also with her being a stay-at-home it can get extremely expensive for him even if he did absolutely nothing wrong

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Yes. There probably be an investigation if you’re caught.