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What about asking dirty questions during? At first he might just respond "Yeah" but he will get more comfortable. The great thing about inexperienced men, is they're receptive to what you like/need.

Thank you so much. Means a lot to hear that.

Acknowledging you need help or can't get through it alone is a very particular kind of strength. Can I ask about what's going on/what's got you feeling this way?

Why so aggressive? Yes she said she did. Read before you make a ridiculous comment.

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I think what you're getting at is that you don't understand how someone would go back to a person who treated them like shit.

What typically happens is that people remember the good stuff and block out the bad shit that happened. It's usually a self worth or self esteem issue.

I am sorry but tldr

This is a hard reality I needed to hear

Can you recomend some?

It’s so early, the not telling family doesn’t set off red flags for me.

But there seems to be a major incompatibility nonetheless. It’s ok. It happens. That’s why we date and try things out.

It could be a minor thing that doesn’t end up bothering you too much - he’s less expressive than you are, and that might be ok.

Yes

Yep, my ex left me for someone else who wasn’t as good as me, she begged me back a few weeks later. I took her back, I never fully recovered from the betrayal and could never trust her again. Then just under a year later she cheated on me with that very same person. Have some self-respect and walk away.

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I think you should have closed the relationship out properly at least. Being abrupt usually hurts you in the long run. People develop all sorts of trust issues and ptsd so for your own sake maybe have a conversation but remember, nothing he did was a result of your shortcomings, it's always their own insecurities and mental health issues.

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Dm me and I’ll tell you I don’t want to tempt anyone who doesn’t want to check etc

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True.. it just feels like I’m climbing the hill.. just need someone to cheer me on and hold my hand at the top to pull me through

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He's happy because he is believing a lie. He believes you are faithful and trustworthy........you are neither of those things. You are a piece of shit and he should know.

He is in love because he doesn't know the real you, he is love who he thinks you are not the deceitful and vile person you actually are.

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