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Intheboxalready t1_iyeu3s7 wrote

Reply to My son (7m) isn’t my husband’s(29m) and I (27f) don’t know who to talk to by rosesandkittens5

" so I have been faithful recently." wtf does that mean? If you cheated on your husband, you need to tell him. You are not only cheating, but lying and deceiving him as well. He is married to the person you are pretending to be. It's beyond shitty if you don't tell him. You are shitty anyways if you cheated......

He should not be stuck with your affair baby. You sound so selfish......

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little_owl211 t1_iyetytb wrote

Reply to I find it hard to respect my significant others when they tell me stories about letting themselves be treated disrespectfully by [deleted]

So... If someone tells you about a thing that was painful for them to go through your reaction is "eugh gross"? No wonder they feel the need to defend themselves, I'd feel attacked if I was trying to be vulnerable with a guy I like and this was his reaction.

Also just because you know something is wrong doesn't mean it's easy to leave. And "I would never do that" great, congrats, they are not you tho. And you judging them by things they regret is not helping.

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Machopsdontcry t1_iyetu3s wrote

Reply to My son (7m) isn’t my husband’s(29m) and I (27f) don’t know who to talk to by rosesandkittens5

You tell him now before he wastes even more time of his life pretending to be a father to a kid that isn't his. You own up to also cheating around the period the 2nd kid was conceived and most likely you'll be justifiably forced to do DNA tests on all kids due to your unfaithfulness.

If you're worried about him correctly getting angry then you inform him with somebody else by your side and prepare for all possible outcomes. You can't blame him especially if he has no idea that you were cheating multiple times already

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Reply to Should I break up with him? by shiftenterspace

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smoozagoozle t1_iyetqo2 wrote

Reply to comment by shroomcitie in is this cheating? by [deleted]

This comment makes me so happy I’m not in a relationship with someone like you

You guys are doomed to fail. I can only imagine what else you’re hiding or lying about because you don’t “think it’s that bad”

Mam, that is your toxic trait and if this relationship fails it will largely be because of you

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