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Living-Kiwi t1_iyeq1g3 wrote

I’m not justifying anything i know i fucked up I’m just explaining why i did what i did.. and why would I lose my right to anger? That’s honestly so stupid. My therapist tells me I’m justified in feeling that way. Yes i chose to stay with him but that doesn’t mean it erases everything

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Shibui50 t1_iyepxzx wrote

Isn't this like the third or fourth time you have posted?

I swear this Post comes up once a week.

I get it. You are pregnant and your guy is not nuts about whats going on.

Got it. Understood.

Now......what the F..K are you going to do? Whats your plan...........

other than applying for Child support from the Childs' Father??

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Lexotron t1_iyepp8f wrote

That's the accounting of what happened, but not why you felt the need to lie.

You could have just said "just getting ready to leave - be home soon". Then when your brother fell asleep you could have said "actually Dave fell asleep so I'm going to be home a bit later".

What feelings happened inside of you that caused you to lie?

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Mela_Min t1_iyepbvj wrote

What he's doing is not your responsibility and that aso should not provoke you to question your confidence. I'm really sorry that happened to you, but it's his doing, it has nothing to do with you. I think you should talk to him and see the reason behind and definitely tell him how you felt when reading about it.

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