Brutal honesty time - you have already cheated on your partner emotionally. I also reallllly dislike when people say they're "worried" they might cheat on their partner as though they have no control over the situation. I'm sure you've heard plenty of horror stories about dating a coworker, but consider if your coworker is only interesting to you because you're hitting a slump in a long relationship. If you don't want to be with your partner (which you clearly do not), just end the relationship. Would you rather lead someone on or live life as you want to live it? I know that living together complicates things; see if there's a couple friends who have a couch for you to crash on while you look for a new place and just break up with your partner.

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No. She doesn't need to block him. You need to ask to see the conversations. You saw enough to warrant answers.

He is talking about fucking her ass

She was lying to you by not telling you about him.

Don't feel weird. Get the answers you deserve. If she refuses or deleted everything it is over.

This is very odd.. how can you let her go to the guy's house and watch anime if you don't know he exists?

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Your entire post was about this coworker. What about your partner?

How do you feel about your partner? Do you love them? Are you happy? Do you have kids/pets? Do you argue a lot? How is your sex life? Do you have plans for marriage?

Thinking that you’re “worried you might cheat” is pathetic. Have some damn self control. If you want to be with the coworker, then break up with your partner. If you can’t have the self control to keep your junk in your pants before breaking up then you’re pathetic

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Don't you think your husband should know that you cheated on him? Shouldn't your husband be able to make a decision whether to stay with you based on all the relevant information-- like the fact that you cheated on him with Noah?

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No. What is private between you two should stay private between you two. Most things are best left in the fantasy category. Can't he just fantasize that you are being watched by his buddy?

You need to leave this man op. Don't do couples counseling. Do counseling for yourself.

Oh you sound like a treasure!!!

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Don’t let your husbands poor behaviour define you . You are strong and beautiful and you have just created new life . Difficult as it may be you and your child deserve so much better .

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It's difficult because my support system was my best friend and childhood friends. But, my husband is very uncomfortable with me hanging out with my best friend because he had a thing for me. And my friends don't want to get caught here.

I can't live like this. It really feels so lonely and miserable. But I don't want my child to have a divorced mom and dad.

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You have to get ahead of it and tell your husband the whole truth. Then look into filing harassment charges if Noah is still pestering people.

But this is a "reap what you sow" kind of situation, so there isn't going to be an easy quick fix.

Its wild to me that you checked his location so quickly, It almost seems like he didnt know what his friends had planned until they told him.

Where you upset that he didnt spend his birthday with you and thus decided to spend your evening stalking him? Interesting relationship.

She said he's just like that, that's one of the reason I want her to cut connections with him. I think that's kinda disrespectful to her. And she said the picture of the pubic hair is from Google, which I really doubt. What I can't believe is she can't block him even tho they just said his nothing just a co worker, it's gonna be weird if she blocks her. But she's only gonna work on site for a month then work at home again. I feel really weird about it. And she wants space she want me to give her space, after I tried breaking up with her.

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