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Yea I've come across this concept of love languages. Yea I guess words are important at some times for me too. How would you approach the situation? I mean if it involves such a massive change in personality type it probably will never change right?

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What's that because of you or them?

My girlfriend has a 28 year old son who has sworn he will never get married. I met him when he was about 19. (yes me and my girlfriend are not married after 9 years, We have already been married and divorced from our first spouses and don't feel the need) Anyway watching her son grow up his stance on a lot of things has changed. He was adamant when he was 20 but I can see he is not so opposed to it now.

This may not apply to you and you have to be ready for a lifetime of no marriage but he may surprise you one day. A lot changes as you get older, views change as well.

about to break it off with the girl, we’ve only been texting like this for a few hours anyways. probably won’t tell my boyfriend, and definitely won’t do this again

You feel weird=guilt. You guys need to have clearly defined rules about your relationship. How much are you each able to exlpore alone, what is good/bad together? What is too far for each of you? How close are your limits? Do you/should you compromise to close those distances if they are large gaps in what each of you considers too far?

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Tell him that you need it and that if he can't deliver, he should step aside and let someone else try.

Apart from staying away from her? Try to find and contact her boyfriend, I mean she has been leading you on for 4 weeks I think it would understandable.

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Yeah, sounds like cheating. So what're you gonna do about it?

This is a personal question. It’s up to you and your expectations in a relationship.

Lack of sex or bad sex is a dealbreaker for me.

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I appreciate we have this hobby in common but the texting is too much. My partner and I both find it too much. Thank you for sharing the photos of your hobby but it needs to stop there. I have no plans to meet one on one and I have no plans to respond to further texts.

Enjoy your hobby. Be well.

Traditions change when you get married. Time to create some new traditions.

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What?!

Maybe you need to tell bf

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Well you are forcing fatherhood on him, but that’s the consequence of having sex. Especially unprotected sex.

You’ve made the decision to have a child with someone who does not want to be a father. This is unfair to your kid, but you have a couple options:

• take him to court for child support and then deal with him not wanting to be involved in the child’s life.

• completely cut him out and do this alone. You will be taking on the burden of raising a person who will have serious attachment issues. It’d be good for you to seek counseling or research what it means for someone to be raised without a father. Statistics for children like that aren’t great.

Your ex is being immature, but he has a right to not want to be a parent.

If he knows why she gives you the cold shoulder forever then why is it? Your examples are not from the start of the relationship

I have reconnected with exes as friends but I never got back into the relationship.