That is not the point, she was really enthusiastic having sex with these exes and making porn tapes. And he gets the cold shoulder. Fuck that noise. They get the cool stuff while he is sat there holding a fucking phone.

Do you think it’s even worth the “I’m done here, I deserve better than what you’re doing to me” talk? Or should I just disappear?

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Do you think it’s even worth the “I’m done here, I deserve better than what you’re doing to me” talk? Or should I just disappear?

Both of you guys look terrible in this story. Not really sure how to fix this. Doubt this relationship will be a long one though.

I needed this 🤣

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Okay you're obviously living in some other world girl. Having videos of you getting fucked by your past partners in your phone is completely different from porn.

That is just straight disrespect. You're fucked in your head if you think that's okay.

why do you want to bring a life into this situation? seems selfish.

IDK the other day I was on tiktok and got horny about a girl. Started masturbating. When I realized what was on the screen, I was masturbating to some guy who gives his chef dad weird prompts. Lol it was weird.

This was also my thought- I don’t consider this show a kid’s show at all.

Some. They are all voiced by adults btw. But there are tons of teachers, villains, and pro heros of age that follow the oversexualized female form. There is maybe like 2 females that are underage but are definetly oversexualized as well.

Lets just say he's not wanking it to a 6 year old playing with my little pony.

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Yeah, so talk about what the plan is.

Well yes and no.. I understand and know that none of it is my fault. I will admit that I get very angry when she starts the stonewalling or saying things like “it’s embarrassing bc you’re the man” etc.

My response to that was “Oh horse shit! It’s 2022 and you’re a grown ass woman and I’m not making shit this month. Grow up”

Like she gaslights me, but I’ve always seen right through it. I’ll just tell her to stop cause I’m getting sick of it. That she needs to take responsibility.

Like how she didn’t offer to help with gas yesterday but paid for lunch. The only reason I didn’t say anything about it yesterday was because I was so fucking tired of thinking about it and didn’t want to get into it after driving all day.

But I’m going to tell her “Alright so I spent $130 in gas, WE have $1000 in rent and x and x and x. How do you want to do it because I’ll be damned if I blow all I’ve saved on bills so you can spend how you please”

I think deep down I knew that but again, sometimes it can be personal preference. So that I you for putting some clarity to it.

Further to dodging a bullet, after being told I was the love of her life and she continually spoke about a future together (house, marriage, kids), within a month of breaking up she was already involved with a guy she claimed she was “just friends” with.

Her sister that lives near us usually comes for Christmas diner, everyone else is out of country …I’m in the US.

Ohhh. My fault. I understand now but it’s still weird. I still find it hard to believe you forget that you have anything like content on your phone.

Disregarding everyone and everything else, what do YOU want to do?

Figure that out, and again - not taking anything or anyone else into consideration.

Personally, I think you should go. I doubt your grandpa would want you to toss aside this wonderful opportunity. Life is for the living, OP. Go on the trip.

And get vaccinated. Don't be an idiot.

Before I even got to the end I knew it was going to be anime lmao

Whatever. They're not real and it's a cartoon with a lot of fanservice.

Have you and your wife not talked about how to incorporate her family to your family’s holiday traditions? Cuz that’s step 1.

why the fuck would you keep old videos and pictures of you fucking other guys if your in a commited relationship? i dont buy the whole i forgot excuse, you just didnt want to give up the videos, now that you got caught keeping videos of your exs you deleted them but you never had any intent on getting rid of them. Of course hes fucking insecure now, he assumes you kept the videos because you would watch and get off to them and you enjoyed the others guys so much you recorded it.

Now dont get me wrong hes a dickhead for going through your phone and pressuring you for sex. Neither of you seem muture enough to actually have a serious relationship.

This is gonna end in a messy break up

I had a friend who fucked the wife of all his neigboors. The guys who have fun at his bbq had no clue. But old friends like me and all the women present know it and keep it shut. What I mean here is that it is not a rare case.

But beyond your will on the path, are able to manage the risk or are ready to take the heat. Most people don't.

So what is the best attitude for you ?

The number of videos and pics is the total amount on her phone not the content of her folder.