Well when you talked to him did you ask him If he’s getting full consent and not SA them? How is he responding ?

Love is a choice, at one point you might look at your partner and feel just as much as emotion as looking at a cardboard box. However, communication and work has to be put both ways.

I personally don't stop trying until I've seen my partner give up.

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Don't think you can make her regret anything because she doesn't seem to be missing out on anything, your attitude seems awful. Forget about her and move on, stop "loosing" any more time on her

Your friend is a problem and people are making you notice it. Acknowledging it would be to talk directly to him about this and get what he has to say. But the outcome of how you precede with this friendship should be based on morality not obligation.

Some acts that show that he cares me or that he puts me first in some situations.

You’re going to hve to confront him about this, also my hero academia is an anime and not a kids shows lol, regardless still odd. When I read your tittle I thought he was watching Nickelodeon. You should talk to him and let him tell you his side.

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Growing up religious can have serious impacts on sexual development. It is good that you came to this realization however you now have to be up front and open about it with your partner. If that is something you need from a relationship and she is not open to the idea then you should find someone that is. By staying in this relationship you are not only doing a disservice to yourself you are also taking time away from her to find someone that has her same values/needs. None of this makes you a lesser Christan. There are all sorts of crazy weird rules u can’t do. To me, religion is about the values and teachings that the stories bring, do unto others, love thy neighbor. Like I don’t think the sin of adultery applies to those who consent to it because its more about the effects of breaking a vow and hurting someone rather than the actual act. I hope you and her have a serious heart to heart and are able to come to a decision. I wish the best for u

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That seems a lot more reasonable. Thanks

I’m gonna be honest, if you’re not willing to handle someone not wanting a relationship with you in a mature way she made a fantastic decision. Furthermore, dating someone you’re not attracted to is never a regrettable choice. The alternative is to waste everyone’s time in a doomed relationship. Move on

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Yup, I agree with the other reply, he's picked his side and it's not yours.

Now you have to decide what you want to do with that information. Personally? I'd walk.

It only works if the partner with hating parents choosed stepping up for their significant other and cuts contact with them. In any other instance, it usually doesn't work out long term.

You don't ask her if she's sleeping with other guys. You ask her if she wants to become exclusive, and go get tested again without telling her.

Best advice: Move on. The most adult thing to do is accept the rejection and move on. Anything more than that is creepy and petty.

I hardly ever delete my emails, I have emails from years and years ago. Its not a big deal

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She doesn’t owe you a thing. You could have had a friend, why did you feel the need to make her feel like she owed you her body? Get yourself together and focus on you, be happy with yourself. She’s not your person, why waste time on someone that isn’t your person?