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Karlor_Gaylord_Cries t1_iydrz3f wrote
Reply to comment by pineboxwaiting in Gf threatening to lock me out, what do I do? by [deleted]
Where's the lease? He should call his leasing office and see what the terms are on that if written
AmsterdamJimmy420 t1_iydrxhe wrote
Csn you talk to him and see what’s up? I mean If he doesn’t understand what he’s doing it’s a learning experience if he does and is like “nah I’m good” then why would you want to be friends with someone who does this?
JerusalEmAll t1_iydrxda wrote
You have cheated twice and he pays all the bills, what do you even offer for him to take back? Next time you find yourself in a dying relationship have the guts to just break up.
Correct-Sprinkles-21 t1_iydrtcg wrote
"Man must provide" is kind of an irrelevant issue here. This is an unhealthy relationship. Y'all aren't on the same page, don't have a good foundation of communication, you don't have the same goals or expectations. You have a lot of drama and unhappiness. It's ok to just move on. Find someone who suits you better.
Who provides is up to the people involved in the relationship. What matters the most is that you agree on the setup, not who does what. If you want someone who is an equal partner financially, date people who expect to be equal partners financially.
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Kooky_Independent656 t1_iydrpux wrote
Reply to comment by themanfromUNCLE100 in I caught my boyfriend masturbating to a kids show by [deleted]
She needs to check his web search...this is disturbing
[deleted] OP t1_iydrliw wrote
Reply to I miss a man’s touch … by [deleted]
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DeeSalmon93 OP t1_iydrjaj wrote
Reply to comment by quirks_n_features_ in Husband doesn’t last long enough in bed… it’s killing our intimacy, HELP. by DeeSalmon93
Oh I forgot to mention, he can’t go multiple rounds. Once he’s done, he can’t get it back up unless we wait a while…. Could that be a medical issue?
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LifeMorning2481 t1_iydri9r wrote
He is an inadequate young man . It’s your body and your baby . Do what you know to be in your heart and detach yourself from this individual . He is unable and unprepared to get anywhere near taking his responsibilities seriously and has the cheek to give you advice about what you should do with your own body . I am not often angered but I truly feel for you here . His mum may be sweet but keeping in touch with her will unavoidably bring you into contact with him - and you and your child deserve far better . Perhaps at some point he can make a change - but his actions right now are deplorable .
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TheGood_D t1_iydrhfc wrote
In my opinion, you could check if he's treating all people like that or you specifically, to see whether he has feelings for you or is just a nice awkward guy. Either way, you can always tell him that you're uncomfortable with the way he compliments you and educate him on how to do better, though it seems unnecessary as long as it's harmless complimenting.
As for your boyfriend, if he's a good person in every other aspect, then it's not that he doesn't care, it's possible that he clearly trusts you and doesn't want to intervene with your place of work and relationships, which is a big positive.
All I am seeing here is a trusting boyfriend and an excessively friendly coworker. I think your coworker might harbour feelings for you or he might just like hanging out with you as a friend, but I'm kinda sure that he could be a little socially awkward. Even if he does have feelings for you, it doesn't matter as long as he doesn't act upon them.
itachi-_-- OP t1_iydrgqu wrote
Reply to comment by No-Case-4093 in I need some help. I want to save my relationship with my girlfriend. by itachi-_--
Okay.. will do that.
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pineboxwaiting t1_iydremo wrote
Reply to My boyfriend mentions frequently that he had invites for sex from multiple women before he met me. by [deleted]
Ask him why he KEEPS telling you this.
Puzzledchica OP t1_iydrdp0 wrote
Reply to comment by PoorCorrelation in Boyfriend lied about how much money he makes but wants to propose ? by Puzzledchica
He also says that he is a manufacturing degree but that was afterwards.
Murky_Anxiety4884 t1_iydrcyc wrote
Reply to My boyfriend mentions frequently that he had invites for sex from multiple women before he met me. by [deleted]
It's most likely a brag, meant to convince either you or himself that he's a catch. He may also be inviting you to share more details of your own past. Either way, I wouldn't dignify it with a response. If it doesn't stop, and if you find it unbearable, end the relationship.
Witch_on_a_moped t1_iydrbe6 wrote
You moved in together after 8 weeks of dating?? What the entire hell is going on here??
electrowiz64 t1_iydraw0 wrote
Reply to comment by pineboxwaiting in Gf threatening to lock me out, what do I do? by [deleted]
2nd floor with balcony unfortunately
Yurt_Of_Carim t1_iydra0w wrote
"whaats goooing ooon?" Lol dont play dumb, that guy wants to fuck you and you want him to, that how most affairs start, then you Will play victim "i didn't knoooowwww" yes you know exactly whats happening , if you are unhappy talk to your bf, either end the relationship and go fuck this other guy or fix the relationship but dont cheat and play dumb "idk just kinda happened, didnt think was going to happen Boo Hoo" classic Cheater bs. Seems like you are in a path of cheating because of the resentment you have for your bf not expending More Time with you. You are still on Time to do the right thing
tinfoilhattguy t1_iydr95f wrote
Blue Chew. I think the code for a free month is tinfoilhat or tinfoil.
LengthinessFresh4897 t1_iydr8uy wrote
If a woman ever tells me that it's a man's job to provide I'm going to simply reply that it's a woman's job to be a homemaker so I will no longer cook or clean but I enjoy causing trouble so take my advice with a grain of salt
Veridical_Perception t1_iydr8o3 wrote
Reply to My boyfriend mentions frequently that he had invites for sex from multiple women before he met me. by [deleted]
You seem to have a handle on the most likely reasons:
- One interpretation is that he's insecure and needs validation.
- Another is that it's a power move to keep you in line by letting you know he has options so don't step out of line, or he'll access those other options.
- He may just be egotistical and likes to brag.
Next time he brings it up, just calmly ask him "I'm not sure why you are telling me this. What am I supposed to do with that information?"
You could also go with "yeah, I get a lot of offers too" and when he gets upset, respond with "oh, I thought we were sharing."
No matter how you slice it, it's a douchy maneuver.
electrowiz64 t1_iydr7uj wrote
Reply to comment by Karlor_Gaylord_Cries in Gf threatening to lock me out, what do I do? by [deleted]
Yes we both are
3ThreeFriesShort t1_iyds07f wrote
Reply to I caught my boyfriend masturbating to a kids show by [deleted]
I feel like people are going to get mad, but that isn't a kid's show. It's more like a teenager and adult show. It's anime voiced by adult actors. Even if we go by the fictional age of the fictional characters they are canonically teenagers, and of fictional legal age in many countries even though the show doesn't depict them in any kind inherently sexual situations.
I mean its a little odd, but I don't think its pedophilia. Your title makes it sound like he was jerking off to Icarly or Sesame Street. You are free to think its weird, free to leave even of course, but I just don't see the victim here.
(Lets just save some time before someone comments, no I don't do this so I am not justifying anything.)