Before you jump to conclusion that whether he was masturbating to a kids show it can happen the show was going on and he was fantasizing about you or some girl and masturbating. The answer also lies in his web search history and tiktok account he watches. If it's underage girls then leave.

You shall send your partner to her GP as she is exhibiting classic symptoms of depression.

You shall talk to her about what’s going on, and you shall ask how you can help.

You shall stop being judgmental.

You shall dig deep and summon a compassionate response to your partner’s apparent crisis.

Not disagree. Just wanted to know if it is okay not to follow it.?

I mean it's telling us to go explore different city. And find your soulmate. But if you feel whatever you are looking for. And you get that in first person. Then is it okay to settle down for the first person and not the other.

Because of course every person is different. And the choices they make are different that's why I'm asking.

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He feels resentment towards his father, hence towards himself being a father!

Did you post this using various accounts? Please be straight!

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What were you doing those 8 years? 8 years isn't struggling get your act together, If my SO and I didn't have a kid and she was out of doing something for multiple years and it wasn't due to something like crippling depression then I would be fed up as well. You might have had money, but that's not the same as bringing anything in, if you had a job you could have saved that all up for a downpayment on a house etc. As for what to do, try to be the best partner you can not just because you're gonna lose him, but make it a permanent change

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That is absolutely creepy, sounds to like your boyfriend has pedophile tendencies and now you have to think about what "other" types of stuff he is jerking off too

3 guys + 3 girls + an entire night of partying + heading back to his place? I failed math but know what this equation adds up to. Cut ties now and pursue what you actually deserve, love

It almost sounds like you're looking for justification to break up with your boyfriend for this guy.

I know this is a really hard pill to swallow for a lot of people, because it can be traumatizing: Break. Up. From. Your. Shitty. Relationships.

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That's it. My dad told me as much when he hated my girlfriends. Did I listen? Hell no. But I wish I had now. Will the same thing happen with my son and whoever he decides to date? Probably.

Just leave.

I was thinking that too...maybe it was just in the background

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I'd really want to be open in person, rather than over text or online. Looking each other in the eyes, hugging it out if need be, etc. I still want to angle for a trip to that wedding she's going to in January, and we can have open conversation on another day hopefully.

Are there other things people do that you can't relate to but that don't give you this feeling? For example I have friends who play video games. I do not. I don't relate to their conversations. But I still listen to them talk about it and I don't feel distant

Then she has to be straight about it!

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Sounds like you gonna let coworker smash. So many questions.

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I’m not going to say your bad, or anyone is in the wrong here. Sometimes people in relationships just drift apart. That’s what it sounds like with your bf. Just know when to let go. Don’t cheat and if things progress with your coworker, then it’s perfectly fine to pursue a relationship with him.

Its super easy to cater to someone's every whim if you're not dating or just starting to talk. You're super into everything they do and you'll spend hours on something that doesn't interest you at all just to spend a few seconds with them.

This is entirely unsustainable. Once a relationship starts suddenly the real world comes crashing back. Volunteering at a shelter? I worked all week, I just need some me time.

Also, kudos for having a trusting boyfriend. From what you've said, he shouldn't be so trusting, since you're inviting this other guy you're clearly into to everything you do.

Post again in a month or two when you've moved on to new guy and the shine wears off some.

So he’s shown you that he is a liar and he will continue to lie. How can you stay with someone you can’t trust?

Tells the whole story how 95% of your post is about this new guy and not even about your title. Seems like you are fiddling around with fire there.

Your boyfriend actually should be concerned xD