Do some research on them! He is definitely quite unstable! You need to know about the family, because you are young and don't deserve to be stuck with a child who might have a 50 percent chance to inherit his/hers father problem!

This is just sick!

Is there a father in the picture? How does his mother behave, before this sick episode????

Op has been posting this under various accounts for days.

Why are you want your boyfriend to get upset?

what's the point of being so moral ? he doesn't want it from you, you need to consider that he may already be getting it from someone else. your happiness matters, definitely matters more than someone who doesn't love you the way you deserve.

Maybe he was watching the show then got bored and decided to masturbate. Hopefully he wasn’t masturbating to the show and just had the show in the background while he did his thing. Or maybe I’m wrong and he had bad intentions. I think you should ask him

I’m definitely not overweight. I’m actually under weight.

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It’s their house though, you can’t expect a complete change in routine right away. And in regards to respect, the op should respect the fact that it is their partner’s house not theirs, and should not demand they bend over backwards to accommodate them in every way possible. It’s a two way street.

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Definitely confront him and consider leaving. The characters in MHA are around 15 years old. The classic argument is that it’s just a cartoon, that anime characters are put through adult conflicts and situations, and that they’re sometimes drawn in sexual ways. But when it boils down to it, just the thought of jerking off to someone that’s 15 years old should be disgusting

Why do people move in together so quickly?

Yes, leave him.

Sheesh.

You didn’t realize Covid was “still a thing”? That’s when I decided this is a troll post. For good measure you threw in fitness.

If this is real, she sounds depressed and you sound ridiculous.

But I doubt it’s real so….

Your boyfriend is a massive jerk for saying that to you. If he cared about you, why would he say that or feel that way?

Consider why you’re happy to remain in that situation.

Everyone deserves to be with someone who shares their interests and actually likes spending time with them. If your boyfriend is so relieved to not have to spend time with you, maybe it’s time to go.

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Well first you shouldn't have to do something you don't like and as for the part where you say you don't know where's it's been....should also apply to the fact you're about to stick it somewhere else too. Listen if that's what's stopping you then use a flavored condom for head. And regular condom for penetration. Come on kids. But like I said you should have to give head if you don't like it. There's other kinds of foreplay which is very important in any type of sexual relationship, meaning casual or relationship.

The question is... Would you enter in this game ?

And if you do when hubby is there, what happen ?

A jerk, an ass, a jackhole, an idiot, a douchecanoe, a moron.

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First things first. Set your boundary on how much you can afford to spend on him and enforce your own boundary with your own self.

Second, if he doesnt want to do anything in order to see you, do you want to be with him?

Third, are you compatible if he doesnt work or go to school and you do? Are you compatible if youre long distance and cant afford to see each other?

Fourth, hes making excuses for not having a job. There are thousands of open entry level jobs you can do from home. Or businesses you can start. Plus he got a job, then did not keep it THREE TIMES.

Fifth, a friend of mine spent tens of thousands of dollars on a man over the course of five years. He never held a job, never did childcare, and never helped with chores. Instead, he hit her and played video games for hours daily and impregnated one of the women that he played with. I’m sharing this so you know that sometimes people don’t change. Sometimes they get much worse. And it can go on for as many years as you allow.

And whether or not he decides to change is NOT IN YOUR CONTROL.

There's so much here. Before I continue, how long have you been together, and do you live together? How old are you?

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Is that guy mentally normal, what about his family history?

Other than that file a restraining order, this guy has lost his marbles!

What a poor excuse of man, he needs to be neutered!

I was on your bf side until I read one of your comments. I was never jealous of my wife during our relationship, because I figured if I gave her all I could and she still wanted to be with someone else, then there was nothing I could have done to prevent it, and I trusted her not to cheat and to tell me if I wasn't enough. However, your comment indicates that he not only doesn't do all he can for you, he barely does anything at all. To me this seems more like he will keep you around for the things he can get out of you, but doesn't care for you further than that. Personally I would leave him. But I also would not date the other guy as he works with you, and does not seem to respect existing relationships. But I could have the wrong take on him as you seem to give him as much interest as he does you.

Yeah I plan to. Would being upset be unfair? I definitely feel like I'm just being paranoid as she's implied she's pretty monogamous. But to be paranoid, I've implied harder... Lol