> I gave him $2 to put on a song and he went to the music thing and there was a girl next to it and he asked her what song she wanted on!

This is all you need to know, he can’t keep his word, he’s worried about impressing a random chick then making his gf happy. And tries to get away with it by lying and gaslighting you. Nope, nope, and nope. Leave this man. He is fundamentally broken and even if he was willing to fix it, it would take years of therapy. Do not waste one more second of your youth on this ass hat of a boy.

I don’t know that ALL guys do but it is a common thing that we want. That being said, I personally never expect it and am pleasantly surprised if my wife obliges me.

Yup, yes he should. But i tbink she's gonna break up with him first. Since she's been feeling lonely with him. Specially now that she's Getting more attention from other guys and he ins't acting jealous

Your girlfriend is not only childish and immature, but also manipulative and insecure.

Terrible, TERRIBLE combination. Let someone else deal with that, you shouldn’t be annoyed for the rest of your life…

The reason I’m not bringing more money in is because people won’t pay more than what I’m already charging. I can totally see what you and my family are seeing, I just wanted to get other opinions on something like this. I’ve been feeling like breaking up with him for a while now, but it’s hard to let go of all the other parts of our relationship that are perfect, but I also want to do what’s best for me, I could honestly live the rest of my life alone and be happy. Thank you for the advice.

Can we just ban these comments altogether? People on Reddit love to yell "BREAK UP!!!" on every post. If you're going to make a comment, at least be constructive. Otherwise, upvote someone else who said the words you didn't feel like typing.

Yess I did

[removed]

Do you have a job? Money of your own? Things like that? Or are you completely dependent on him & your family?

Oh man, your partner doesn’t show you nearly enough respect. Them being small things just shows how much this is their true colors. Even if they’re going through something, they are completely failing their responsibility of behavior. This won’t go away, and if something more serious comes up, you won’t be able to depend on them. I’m sorry you’re going through this

[deleted]

Yeah there was nothing, just old messages from before us

A few minutes later and still not enough, should be 50-100 already lol

You have so many problems you need to contact this friend everyday? That is overdoing it. I hope you are not talking about your marriage to him. That's emotionally cheating.

You admit to wanting to do sexual things if husband is on board. You have been flirty in the past. You are into this friend more than you will admit. Start cutting back on your contact with him. Go find a bff to share your story or better yet tell your husband your problems. He may be pushing you off to his friend because you have so many issues that its tiring to hear them.

Like I said she pays for groceries and electric $150 And I pay $1000 rent and $100 for internet.

Max she spends on groceries is $500. But I’d much rather shop smart and have a plan every week. I feel like I don’t have a voice or that she never validates my concerns, whether financial or emotional because of the things she does.

She will Stonewall, where she says nothing whatsoever when I’m trying to talk.

She will shut the conversation down by saying she’s sleepy, then if I don’t go to sleep she’s right back up and active and happy, because the conversation was avoided.

She says things like “this is so embarrassing, the man is supposed to provide”-bringing up splitting bills.

Even when I get to the point of crying out of frustration, after she’s mad me so angry by acting like a child, saying that I don’t want to leave her but I feel like I’m gonna have to, and she’ll just sit there staring at the wall. Never takes full accountability.

How can I get her to act like an adult? Do I just threaten to pack my shit and leave and go no contact like I have before? I feel like she needs therapy in order to act right.

That’s what a Psychiatrist told her in January. She was prescribed mood stabilizers but they didn’t do much, and that’s when she was told she needed therapy.

She didn’t take it well. She said “I’m just fucked up man!” And cried for hours in bed

If he has no activity on the account, your in good hands

So, what clothes is she buying you?

[deleted]

When you are in a committed monogamous relationship the only body count that matters is 1: your partner. You only have sex with your partner. Everything before the relationship doesn't matter.

Stop fixating on stupid stuff or you will destroy this relationship.

Sometimes we make mistakes and we have to live with the consequences. However, you lied about hanging around with a girl, you cheated with your ex, you only came clean because he knew, you would’ve just lied and kept this truth from him, and who knows how many more times you would do this if you were not caught. There is not a snowball’s chance in hell that you can recover from this. Only idiot guys your own age and younger put up with this shit.

Welcome to /r/relationship_advice. Please make sure you read our rules here. We'd like to take this time to remind users that:

• We do not allow any type of am I the asshole? or situations/content involving minors

• Any sort of namecalling, insults,etc will result in the comment being removed and the user being banned. (Including but not limited to: slut, bitch, whore, for the streets, etc. It does not matter to whom you are referring.)

• No referencing hateful subreddits and/or their rhetoric. Examples include, but is not limited to: red/blue/black/purplepill, FDS, MGTOW, etc. This includes, but is not limited to, referring to people as Chads, pick-me's, or pornsick. Any infractions of this rule will result in a ban. This is not an all-inclusive list.

• All bans in this subreddit are permanent. You don't get a free pass.

• What we cannot give advice on: rants, unsolicited advice, medical conditions/advice, mental illness, letters to an ex, "body counts" or number of sexual partners, legal problems, financial problems, situations involving minors, and/or abuse (violence, sexual, emotional etc). All of these will be removed and locked. This is not an all-inclusive list.

If you have any questions, please send us a modmail.

#This is an automatic comment that appears on all posts. This comment does not necessarily mean your post violates any rules.

I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.

Welcome to /r/relationship_advice. Please make sure you read our rules here. We'd like to take this time to remind users that:

• We do not allow any type of am I the asshole? or situations/content involving minors

• Any sort of namecalling, insults,etc will result in the comment being removed and the user being banned. (Including but not limited to: slut, bitch, whore, for the streets, etc. It does not matter to whom you are referring.)

• No referencing hateful subreddits and/or their rhetoric. Examples include, but is not limited to: red/blue/black/purplepill, FDS, MGTOW, etc. This includes, but is not limited to, referring to people as Chads, pick-me's, or pornsick. Any infractions of this rule will result in a ban. This is not an all-inclusive list.

• All bans in this subreddit are permanent. You don't get a free pass.

• What we cannot give advice on: rants, unsolicited advice, medical conditions/advice, mental illness, letters to an ex, "body counts" or number of sexual partners, legal problems, financial problems, situations involving minors, and/or abuse (violence, sexual, emotional etc). All of these will be removed and locked. This is not an all-inclusive list.

If you have any questions, please send us a modmail.

#This is an automatic comment that appears on all posts. This comment does not necessarily mean your post violates any rules.

I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.

Welcome to /r/relationship_advice. Please make sure you read our rules here. We'd like to take this time to remind users that:

• We do not allow any type of am I the asshole? or situations/content involving minors

• Any sort of namecalling, insults,etc will result in the comment being removed and the user being banned. (Including but not limited to: slut, bitch, whore, for the streets, etc. It does not matter to whom you are referring.)

• No referencing hateful subreddits and/or their rhetoric. Examples include, but is not limited to: red/blue/black/purplepill, FDS, MGTOW, etc. This includes, but is not limited to, referring to people as Chads, pick-me's, or pornsick. Any infractions of this rule will result in a ban. This is not an all-inclusive list.

• All bans in this subreddit are permanent. You don't get a free pass.

• What we cannot give advice on: rants, unsolicited advice, medical conditions/advice, mental illness, letters to an ex, "body counts" or number of sexual partners, legal problems, financial problems, situations involving minors, and/or abuse (violence, sexual, emotional etc). All of these will be removed and locked. This is not an all-inclusive list.

If you have any questions, please send us a modmail.

#This is an automatic comment that appears on all posts. This comment does not necessarily mean your post violates any rules.

I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.

Mental isn't it

28 about 50