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I haven’t been on a date yet. But I dunno. I’ve got a feeling she won’t want to go now. I got quite a blunt reply.

I feel like I always talk myself out of things. I would like a gf. Then I get excited, ask for a date, then the more I start to think and question, I end up not wanting to go. I find something that puts me off

Doesn’t text you much when he’s out socializing with people and inviting a mixed gender group to his house isn’t necessarily a problem, but you’re the one who knows him and if he’s trustworthy. Are you getting a bad vibe because he’s given you a reason not to trust him or because you’ve had bad experiences with other people in the past?

Then you can even say, I just to be honest am not feeling a connection.

But I usually say always go on ONE date and the person COULD surprise you on how they are in person. But if you've done that already OR if it really just doesn't feel good at all then do what's best for you. Cut ties and move on just be vocal and don't Ghost :)

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I say absolutely not - this is between you and your bf. Why is she somehow more trustworthy than him? If you 2 are going to work it out, contacting her is not going to be a positive move. He betrayed you, she didn't, don't make it her business.

Having said that, if it were me I wouldn't be still trying to work it out, cheating is a full stop for me.

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Just don’t wanna make people feel upset but honestly today mentally I feel really shitty. I’ve moved to a new city in the last 2 weeks and I’m struggling to stay happy a bit

Yes, and I've had people bail on me this late too. As long as they let me know they won't make it, it's fine. We can rearrange. If it happens twice in a row I cut my losses and move on.

Tbh I don’t think I wanna go at all

Fucking Jody.

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As long as you communicate ahead. The sooner you do then the better. But then also make an effort to make a reschedule, if you flop then it's on you to make amends if you actually care to make it work.

Yup.

If someone can't understand that you're going through something now, imagine how they'll be later in the potential relationship.

I’m gonna ask to rearrange and say I’m feeling rough

Even for a first date?

You can do whatever you want.

Communication is key!

Let your date know that you aren't feeling yourself and would like to reschedule.

If they are worth your time they will understand.

He doesn’t think anything is wrong with us.. he truly doesn’t understand… but that’s cuz he gets all his needs met so he thinks everything is okay.. he’s not trying to see my pov.. it’s a one way marriage..

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