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morpheus816 t1_iycf55i wrote

Reply to Older man wants to be my friend. Weird or not? by [deleted]

It seems you ignored your inner voice when you gave him your number. Always listen to that voice.

Tell him the truth! You are uncomfortable communicating with him and don't wish to continue. Respectful goodbye and good luck, then block.

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kerkasmokecrack t1_iycewvy wrote

Reply to comment by Bryanormike in Asked gf a question multiple times and she started yelling at me by [deleted]

What I meant by not seriously is when I asked her when could I meet him ( I didn’t really want to meet him) and then asked why she doesn’t want me to meet him. She dit defensive and started yelling at me. Yes I got that I should not do “jokes” anymore it was childish from me, but I have reached a limit, her not communicating and always getting defensive. Yes I agree with you , it’s the correct way do to it, it’s been one year since I try to do it , but it’s always the same result. Well I did not want to accuse her of anything but yeah it’s a little bit suspicious for me when she gets so defensive when asked a question that she doesn’t want. I get my error and already told her that I’m sorry for the way I asked but yelling at me and getting so defensive it’s not correct either . I just want to know what’s happening cause everytime there’s something that should be explained she yells at me and ignores me

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Pink_moon_2211 t1_iyce701 wrote

Reply to comment by My_2Cents_666 in how to understand when your partner is giving you little care and attention or if instead you are expecting too much even if he is doing his best? by [deleted]

You are right, communication is the key. And I learned to communicate openly right with him and we talk about everything. Really. But I admit that the problem here is that I feel guilty saying "I need you to give me more attention, I need you make me feel that you want to take care of me right now" because I feel that on the one hand I have no right to ask and on the other I feel that if I ask him to give me more attention and then he does it, I would feel that it is no longer a spontaneous gesture but a response to my request. But you're right, I'll try to talk about it with my psychologist too. Thanks for your advice 🤍

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WalkingTombst0ne t1_iycdvuw wrote

Reply to Found out Wife cheated on me a bunch during bootcamp 10 years ago by myWholeWifeIsaLie

I can't tell you how many stories I've heard of women cheating while the guy is in boot camp. I knew a guy who used to live on-base and he told me whenever the wife's husband were on deployment they'd put a broom out on the porch to signal to other guys that her husband was away and she was available.

No shit - true story.

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