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so if your partner just keeps ignoring your questions there’s nothing wrong with it. I am in the wrong for asking the same question but when over a year you ignore and not answer questions that you don’t want to answer I don’t think it’s correct either

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Is it op or the gf making the joke? The way I read is the gf is making jokes about this guy being the side piece.

The way Ive understood this is op asked a probing question in a lackadaisical way (btw don't do this, if you want to know something ask seriously) and his gf responded by saying this guy, who she flirted with and openly has a crush on her, is her side piece. Then when asked seriously, she gets defensive.

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But he should leave you.

He refused because you RAPED him. You don't love him if you could abuse and inflict that severe level of trauma on him. I think your wording and justification is disgusting, you need help. and I hope he finds the courage to leave you, he's probably terrified that a loved one did this to him, I hope your boyfriend heals from this.

I don't think you realize the seriousness of what you have done.

Imagine that one of your (GIRL)friends told you: "He went inside me and started having sex with me till I woke up. I was upset and told him to stop but he didn’t. He ended up finishing inside me."

What would you say to your girlfriend?

Just because he's a man doesn't mean your boyfriend can't say no. Just because he is hard in the morning when he wakes up doesn't mean he wants to. No means no.

You raped your boyfriend, and your only problem is "How do I get him to do it (again)?". Wow. Girl, you have some serious issues, and it's about time you learn the meaning of "consent".

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Try reversing the genders to realize you should be in jail

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This is rape. Reported.

Rapist

Injury doesn’t matter, what you did is still rape. Tbh with the way you are commenting it feels more like you are just a troll. Nasty troll to say shit like that.

You raped him

This is a troll guys. Don’t take the bait.

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I feel like sex-ed classes need to start including the fact that morning wood doesn't equal horny. Troll or not, there are people that genuinely believe that random morning boners MUST mean that the guy is horny and ready to go.

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You raped him.. doesn’t matter if you are in a relationship. You did it without his consent and when he woke, he told you to STOP which you failed to listen to. Morning wood doesn’t matter, every guy wakes up with one. If this was the other way around, he would be getting slaughtered for it. I hope he breaks up with you and reports you

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Not cool. You raped him. He said no before and when you woke him up. I'd be surprised if he didn't break up with you.

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