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markbrev t1_iyc8jhv wrote

MORNING WOOD IS NOT A SIGN OF BEING TURNED ON. You sexually assaulted him as the law stands in the U.K., but as others pointed out you’ve basically raped him and admitted to it. You don’t respect his boundaries an you obviously don’t respect him as a person or a partner. Just in case you missed it NO MEANS NO.

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Mysterious_Bee8811 t1_iyc8aul wrote

16 and you want to give her a ring? You're sure she likes jewelry, right? I know in America girls who aren't into jewelry may find a ring to be a big turn off.

I'd recommend getting something that's related to her interests:

- A keychain with something she's interested in (favorite city, or animal, or something)

- Simple flowers

- Something homemade

I don't know, you know her much better than we do. What's the budget? And why did you chose to buy her a ring anyway?

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theuselessadultv2 t1_iyc84oy wrote

I'm going to point out what everybody says here- this is rape. He did not consent. Not only did he not consent, but he said no outright. I'm amazed that you don't see how fucked up what you did was. Get therapy and leave that poor man alone.

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Bryanormike t1_iyc78iq wrote

She probably got annoyed because it's not a funny joke, especially when you keep repeating it.

Again you had something to say so rTher than repeatedly asking the question childishly you should've told her that you wanted a serious discussion.

It's no surprise she got annoyed or angry at you. It's a very childish way to go about things. Especially when you're basically saying you don't trust her or what you're gonna try to spin it as you don't trust him.

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