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indigoholly t1_iyc8k9f wrote
Reply to I think my girlfriend might be mad at me and I am really upset and I dont know what to do by Narrow_Performer_211
Is there anything that happened immediately before she vanished?
markbrev t1_iyc8jhv wrote
Reply to My(18F) boyfriend(18M) refused to fuck me by [deleted]
MORNING WOOD IS NOT A SIGN OF BEING TURNED ON. You sexually assaulted him as the law stands in the U.K., but as others pointed out youβve basically raped him and admitted to it. You donβt respect his boundaries an you obviously donβt respect him as a person or a partner. Just in case you missed it NO MEANS NO.
Mysterious_Bee8811 t1_iyc8aul wrote
Reply to Help me Women by Intrepid_Win_2064
16 and you want to give her a ring? You're sure she likes jewelry, right? I know in America girls who aren't into jewelry may find a ring to be a big turn off.
I'd recommend getting something that's related to her interests:
- A keychain with something she's interested in (favorite city, or animal, or something)
- Simple flowers
- Something homemade
I don't know, you know her much better than we do. What's the budget? And why did you chose to buy her a ring anyway?
[deleted] OP t1_iyc8a1j wrote
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theuselessadultv2 t1_iyc84oy wrote
Reply to My(18F) boyfriend(18M) refused to fuck me by [deleted]
I'm going to point out what everybody says here- this is rape. He did not consent. Not only did he not consent, but he said no outright. I'm amazed that you don't see how fucked up what you did was. Get therapy and leave that poor man alone.
Narrow_Performer_211 OP t1_iyc83qn wrote
Reply to I think my girlfriend might be mad at me and I am really upset and I dont know what to do by Narrow_Performer_211
Okay, I forgot to add that I am 19, female, and she is 18, also female
dHAMILT26 t1_iyc83ns wrote
Reply to comment by Ill-Rush6002 in My(18F) boyfriend(18M) refused to fuck me by [deleted]
Not basically. Did.
Altruistic-War-5860 t1_iyc83j9 wrote
Reply to My(18F) boyfriend(18M) refused to fuck me by [deleted]
Are you a troll? If you not , you are a rapist. That was rape. No means no.
check_out_channel_9 t1_iyc7wav wrote
Stop asking her the same questions over and over again. I can see why she's irritated.
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Ill-Rush6002 t1_iyc7nzu wrote
Reply to My(18F) boyfriend(18M) refused to fuck me by [deleted]
You basically raped him
handydandy2020 t1_iyc7nls wrote
Reply to My(18F) boyfriend(18M) refused to fuck me by [deleted]
No. He said NO. Jesus Christ do you realise that guys get morning wood when they need to piss as well? Also, you're not entitled to take what you want from him. He said no. You ignored him. That is sexual harassment/rape.
Jankaobezjanka t1_iyc7nkf wrote
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You do realise that's rape right. No concent no action. Just stop, think about what u did, and apologise.
TheBald_Dude t1_iyc7mrv wrote
Reply to My(18F) boyfriend(18M) refused to fuck me by [deleted]
So you raped him....
[deleted] OP t1_iyc7ip4 wrote
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Bryanormike t1_iyc78iq wrote
Reply to comment by kerkasmokecrack in Asked gf a question multiple times and she started yelling at me by [deleted]
She probably got annoyed because it's not a funny joke, especially when you keep repeating it.
Again you had something to say so rTher than repeatedly asking the question childishly you should've told her that you wanted a serious discussion.
It's no surprise she got annoyed or angry at you. It's a very childish way to go about things. Especially when you're basically saying you don't trust her or what you're gonna try to spin it as you don't trust him.
Big-Entertainer6424 OP t1_iyc6nym wrote
Reply to comment by Nectarine_smasher in Thoughts on a man sending crying selfies when you want to leave him? by Big-Entertainer6424
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MelkorTheWicked t1_iyc63nh wrote
Reply to comment by Nectarine_smasher in Thoughts on a man sending crying selfies when you want to leave him? by Big-Entertainer6424
How the hell do you know? Are you in that relationship? Do you know the person in question? You have one side of a story, I am simply saying it is possible that it is a desperate attempt to salvage a relationship. People are so narrow minded and quick to jump to negativity.
cassowary32 t1_iyc61f5 wrote
Reply to Thoughts on a man sending crying selfies when you want to leave him? by Big-Entertainer6424
That's creepy and manipulative. You dump him but don't block him. This kind of crazy escalates and you'll want to have something to report to the police for when you need a restraining order.
Objective_Flan_9967 t1_iyc60ki wrote
Reply to comment by Big-Entertainer6424 in Thoughts on a man sending crying selfies when you want to leave him? by Big-Entertainer6424
I'm not sure how to explain it... He feels like he needs you to survive, he may turn to stalking you to try to "win yoy back".
You have to make it clear to him that what he is doing is unacceptable, and if he cont, get a restraining order
Nectarine_smasher t1_iyc5ujo wrote
Reply to comment by MelkorTheWicked in Thoughts on a man sending crying selfies when you want to leave him? by Big-Entertainer6424
He's not expressing his feelings, he's pulling the victim card in an attempt to guilttrip OP back in a relationship through her friends, pure manipulation and toxicity
MelkorTheWicked t1_iyc5r0q wrote
Reply to comment by 00Lisa00 in Thoughts on a man sending crying selfies when you want to leave him? by Big-Entertainer6424
It could be stalking or it could be the desperate attempt of a man in love. I told her to leave regardless
[deleted] OP t1_iyc8kx6 wrote
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