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She isn't. She's coming here because she wants to hide her abuse better. If she wanted to stop being abusive, she would walk away, but she won't because she doesn't. She shouldn't be enabled to remain because she's a woman. She's an abuser.

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I want to address the problem.

I fear that might push off the problem and make her think that I think what I did was ok.

But this is also good advice

Edit: my only issue is the "instead" part.

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You can just straight tell him that you would really like him to give you oral. Its also important that you lead him during it a little to your sweet-spots, so he can make you cum.

Once he learned that you can cum from him giving oral, he will probably put more effort into it, too. Also, try to be as clean as possible.

Your taste is not that important, most guys have their "ways" to work around bad taste and do not really mind. So do not worry too much about that but you can still ask if you taste bad if he acts kind of flaky around the subject.

You can want to learn communicating all you want but the fun thing is, communication comes from talking and listening a lot so do not avoid topics that seem a bit embaressing. Embrace them and with the right person, it will be rewarded.

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Sus.

It’s usually a hot lady saying you send then I’ll feel comfortable sending.

The man sends because he is thirsty and then she blackmails for money.

Even if you block someone doesn’t mean the convo is deleted, unless he deleted it.

Dude tried to chat up and swap nudes and got played. Now you’re being played.

I know a few guys that have fallen for this scam and these men are smart, run their own businesses and are even single. The scammer sent them to sisters and mums.

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Your bf screwed up by deleting those messages. If you trust him it’s okay to let him wingman for his friends. It doesn’t have to be untoward, it is just a way to support a friend. Even if other woman are involved, he doesn’t have to do anything wrong to help out. As long as you are okay with him carrying on normal conversations.

That being said, the deleted messages are a bad look (even though he is probably telling the truth about what they said), it was a boneheaded move.

Instead of just apologizing, why not do something nice for her?

Dude.... it's just a text, you're overthinking this.

Just send it! You got this

She’s acting single so make her single. She doesn’t care about you and is most certainly cheating on you. Don’t live like that. Kick her ass to the curb!

You're overthinking it if you're all just friends. If anyone would like something more than friends maybe you should reconsider.

No.

That is completely manipulative and too late.

If you're willing to work through the issues, then why dump her? You should've communicated and tried to fix them.

You dumped her. Stop trying to make her feel like there's a chance down the line.

If you weren't mature enough to work through the issues, then you're not now.

It smells of insecurity on your end. Like you're regretting breaking up.

:/ you’re right.. I told myself that I can’t love him for who I want him to be.. and I’m sure if I hadn’t been his roommate I would’ve never been interested in someone like him. He actually lied to me about his age, took like 3 years off of it. I found out because I looked up his public records.. I was floored, I thought it was surely a mistake on the website. It wasn’t.

The cringiest.

This is fucked up. Don’t text her.

She has flaws of course but it doesn't justify me being even mildly toxic to her. She's wonderful and doesn't deserve me making her feel guilty

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I feel most awful for Rose in this situation. She is going to be the biggest victim out of all of this.

At least you and Jay have to awareness about everything... Rose, is walking her way into a miserable marriage and has no idea whats in store

I am happy for this.

>He's tried his tactics with Jay in the past as well and we're both sick of it (ex: tried to get with Jay's ex INSIDE Jay's vehicle, ditched him countless times on outings, etc.).

I don't know what the play is here.

Ideally, I would like to see Jay reject the wedding entirely. Not sure why he still is keeping him around as a friend. And the cherry on top would be confessing to Rose, why he is cutting Logan out and refusing best man. Its a wedding her cannot support.

Crazy this type of drama is surrounding you at 20.

Okay. My play is this.... after you execute u/KJM31422 comment

Jay, this is what Logan has done to me in the past. I cannot accept how you are in support of keeping him around. This shows me where your priorities are. I think we may need to consider if this relationship is a good fit.

Next... Rose, hunny. This might be one of the last few times we speak to each-other. But I cannot go silent. This is what I think of your relationship. You're going to be leading yourself into a trap. Logan is abusive to you. I am sorry but I cannot stand around and watch you dive into this marriage. It'll be hard to watch. I broke up with Jay because he is keeping Logan as a toxic friend. Before I go on my way, I just wanted to let you know my final thoughts.

And leave. Never look back.

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