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EvilFinch t1_j6pg6se wrote

Reply to My(19m) boyfriend blocked me (20f) because of his therapist by radnsad69

He listen to everything was others say. The parents say block her, he does it, the holistic teacher aka therapist says block her and he also humps. He has no own opinion. This guy is no good for you. You say he is important for you and you want to fight, but your feelings aren't recipracated or why else could he end the contact so easy?

There are so many better men who really cares for you without all this trouble.

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Kwikasfukii t1_j6pg59n wrote

Reply to comment by worcesternellie in My (f24) husband (m25) sent nudes to someone else. by [deleted]

Ouch, I’m sorry to hear that happened to them. Honestly sounds like real bad luck because generally it’s true they don’t usually send out the nudes. Best action is to block and ignore all messages straight away rather than engage with them. My friends privatised their socials, changed passwords and posted to say they were hacked and to ignore any private messages received. One of my friends did however say “go for it I’ve been looking for that last push to kill myself” before blocking them. So maybe that scared the scammer off as that would cause a lot of media attention to these scams

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KJM31422 t1_j6pg4qa wrote

Reply to I (19F) Need Advice Setting a Difficult Boundary With my Boyfriend (20M) And His "Friend" (20M) by ThrowRA_SR5

OP, I know this seems complicated, but it's actually pretty simple... you and you BF already set this boundary with Logan once. He cut Logan out for 6 months. He can do it again. You need to put your foot down and stand up for yourself - don't make it about the wedding, you can't force him not to go, but you can make him decide between being friends with Logan (who sounds like an absolute piece of shit) or being with you.

It is completely 100% acceptable to say, "No, I will not be with you if you are friends with Logan." I would absolutely do the same. Logan is playing to your bfs ego about the wedding clearly, and unfortunately, your bf fell for it, so far.

To put it simply from jsut your post, Logan has

  • sexually harassed you

  • abused his power as Jay's friend to try and ruin your relationship

  • is blatantly abusive to his gf

  • is, pretty objectively, a sexist piece of shit.

You are PERFECTLY within your rights as a normal, lovely, sane human being to issue an ultimatum to your bf. It's you or Logan. Obviously, it's easier said than done, but the silver lining is that if he picks Logan, he's really not someone you'd want to be with anyway.

You are not AT ALL crazy for not wanting this dude in your life. You're not telling your bf he can't be friends with him, you're telling him he can't be friends with Logan AND date you.

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Reply to How do I(m20) apologize to my girlfriend(f19) without making it seem like I'm trying to get her to say "it's ok" by WaltzLeafington

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