Makes me wonder why gf checked out.

People sometimes exaggerate to their friends to make themselves seem more interesting. Who knows why she said that?

You on the other hand, seem to be the one with the biggest issue. You seem to lack self awareness, are inappropriately invasive of her space, and almost seem controlling.

She's allowed to talk to her friends. That doesn't give you the right to accuse her of cheating. You are behaving irrationally and unreasonably.

So, she told a lie about the two of you moving. Big deal. Instead of accusing her of cheating, own your behavior and tell her that you've been spying on her.

Same feeling happened with me not too long ago. It was hard, but after I broke up with her I felt relief, not sadness. At least not much

Thank you for your advice, I will try to do that.

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They often proceed to threaten revealing it to all your friends and family on social media. They demand payment via gift cards or other means if not. This is one of the most common scams going right now.

It’s most likely a old man in some third world country playing a risqué young lady. Sometimes they will even lay child porn on them by later revealing they are not 18.

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Yeah I get what your saying. I feel shitty for looking because I do trust her. Maybe I'm insecure I don't know:(

Just reads as really toxic to me. Bit manipulative. Did they ask why you broke up with them when you first did it??

It sounds like she still has a crush on him but maybe he is not available. Her constantly checking her phone waiting for a reply kind of gives it away.

If you’re not happy, it’s not gonna get better with time. You should break up. But there’s a way to break it off and still be supportive if she really needs it

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I sometimes have sex with women without their verbal consent because they clearly initiate sex. From the guys point of view, she did exactly that.

I do not ask "Do you want to have sex?" when shes already licking my zipper.

EDIT: actually i did once and she kinda started laughing and asked me "what the fuck do you think smart boy" - so that was a fun night.

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No, this is corny as hell. Leave her alone.

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As someone who writes contracts and policies every day. You think that what you discussed was clear once again but I'm telling you that it was not.

For example "offset in other areas" what does that mean?

Does it mean extra sex? And how do you define extra sex? Your expectations obviously we're not met so unless she was intentionally trying not to meet them there was some type of breakdown in communication.

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I have had friends with crazy imaginations. 😂 It was like they lived in a fantasy world.

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