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pineboxwaiting t1_j6pe173 wrote

Reply to comment by onceuponatime55 in My (43f) Husband (42m) cheated when we started dating until about 6 months in… by [deleted]

But as far as you know, everything has ended. She’s not trying to get him to sneak off with her anymore. There’s no touching at parties. Nothing. Everything is over now. Everything. Is that right? And now you’re left to address the lies he told at the beginning of your relationship? Do you have kids?

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chefwalleye t1_j6pdwmm wrote

Reply to comment by lucketta in My (20F) Boyfriend (19M) of 2yrs Tipped 10%. Am I Being Overdramatic? by [deleted]

You’re right. I forgot about when we all voted for tipping culture. Tipping culture is ridiculous and if I could change it I would. Is this honesty the only thing you have to feel superior about? You’re restating the most common complaints about a universally disparaged and outdated system like it’s some kind of revelation.

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Reply to my [19 f] girlfriend [18f] needs more gestures from me but i don’t know what to different. help pls by throwRAurmomlol

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TMGStan420 OP t1_j6pd7ux wrote

Reply to comment by nightowl2023 in 28M trying to know if I’m getting taken advantage of financially by my now ex 28F girlfriend by TMGStan420

Expectations were talked about very early on. It was discussed at month 2 into our relationship and at two other moments. I didn’t expect 50/50 because of our salary discrepancies. We agreed that the effort I’m putting in financially can be offset in other areas. But it wasn’t. We agreed with her having a slightly larger grocery bill for the weeks I visited so that we had leftovers for lunch. After like 2 visits, it ended up with me having to give her money for groceries because she didn’t want to pay 40 dollars more the weeks I visited.

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MrsJonesy2012 t1_j6pd5l5 wrote

Reply to I(25F) think my BF(25M) raped his ex. by ThrowRA_9734

Sounds like he was very high and she was high and drunk.

It's not a clear cut situation because both were to intoxicated to consent. She claims rape, but so could he-as he was too inebriated to give consent also.

Plus she carried on having sex with him for another year, but says you're in the wrong because your now in a relationship with him.

I would block her and move on, sounds like she's trying to cause problems. Maybe her relationship broke down.

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DM_ME_YOUR_PET_PICSS t1_j6pcx9b wrote

Reply to comment by Sea_Duty182 in Im worried m32 my fiance f31 fancy her work colleague by [deleted]

Well you already snooped, but you can’t really bring anything up without admitting that.

Might just have to say something like “hey _____, I went through your phone and noticed how you were talking to _____. Is there a reason your telling her fake things?”

Could backfire massively if she takes this as an invasion of privacy, which it was, and try to say that you shouldn’t know that stuff anyway, you shouldn’t. But there is basically 0 other way to find out unless you talk to the other women.

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