I don't know how to approach it, and the fact I almost sensed something was different beforehand and noticed the change in behaviour says there is something more to it.

I know its a bad idea, I didn't want to end things but I did because she didn't seem to prioritize me and I felt like I was losing her to other guys.

I pretty much said this during the break up, she didn't want to fight to make things work, she said she felt the same way about it not working out for a while. I love what she could be, and maybe if we communicated better it would have worked but that scenario is a make believe one.

I told her I love her and she said the same, she said there is a good chance we get back together. I just miss her man.

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Your needs are being completely rejected. And f she's running like you say she is, she'll be an alcoholic soon enough, if not she is already.

I'd call it quits on this one.

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That's the spirit

These things get easier as time goes by.

You'll be alright!

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Right. OP wants her to beg him back.

How many dates have you gone on?

Thanks man, I will keep my head up

Stay strong. Sometimes loving someone is not enough.

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I'm invested in this too now lmao.

Please post update about this.

Please don't send her this.

Are you playing games? You dumped her. You had a chance to work through things. You chose to dump instead. Now you want to put the ball back in her court to make her chase you? No. You ended it. Leave her alone.

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No prob. Here I'm assuming that you still care about her as a person despite no longer having romantic feelings.

As others said, you need to prioritize your own well-being. Though, you can make the break-up as amicable as it can and help her get through the situation.

The most important thing is her living condition. You can help her with apartment hunting. Since she is financially independent, there might be places that she can afford around there.

Encourage her to expand her social circle, or take up hobbies and have online friends if she's having trouble with irl social interactions.

I was sure of it at the time and it needed to be done. She said that one day she hopes our paths cross again. I am just missing the good times man, I know this is a bad idea. I pretty much said this when we were breaking up, she didn't want to try and save it, she said she felt the same way about breaking up too. I loved her so I let her go, I did that because she didn't prioritize me and it felt like I was a FWB sometimes.

I valued them greatly as a friend, and I've told them about my love interest as well, I did say no every time they ask me out, I understood how love can hurt so much so I never hesitate to tell them "no", but they just refuse to acknowledge my lack of love interest in them.

Sigh.

I know that pain all too well man, it sucks.

But it sounds like it was mutual and that you both have said all you need to say. Look I totally understand wanting to reach out that one last time, really I do... but it doesn't bring the closure you think it does, trust me.

One day at a time, bro, just keep going.