Go with your crush. I don’t think you owe the other person anything.

And?

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Then why did you break up with her? Sounds like it was a "test" to see if she'd start doing what you wanted. That's toxic af. Break up or get back together (as she is, with no expectation of change), none of this manipulative nonsense.

Calling his holistic teacher a therapist is an insult to therapists.

This guy is either crazy or gullible. You can do better.

>she loves the fact that I’m very mysterious and that she can never really tell what I’m truly thinking

Probably because you're one of the few guy's who isn't foaming at the mouth for her.

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Yeah. But recently she has also been leaving me on delivered for a few hours at a time..

"So tell me about Guy 1, Guy 2 and Guy 3."

See how she reacts.

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Nah she said it jokingly and believes it 100%, been here and it is a shitshow ride.

She is too immature in how she dates and wants some ro obsessively fawn over her to prove her worth.

Run. These people aren't fun. The fact she is messaging you after you did what she asked also show that she wants a mind reader and has poor communication skills too.

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6 months is VERY short term.

It may not have had any effect on your relationship at this point but the probability is high that it will eventually.

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Also lots of people use it to cheat with because most spouses won’t think to check LinkedIn chat for cheating.

Stay true to you. Either way, she reeks of high maintenance.

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People make up stories to give them things to talk about with their friends. Makes them look like a more interesting person.

LOL. Because I’m an old and not on most social media but active professionally, I get hit up on LinkedIn ALL THE TIME! Especially when I attend a conference and “networking”

How enmeshed you want to be is up to you. If you want to see her, text as she asks.

Make sure to tell your friends and family if you're concerned about your safety or anything he says. You can lean on other people. No one is going to judge you if he says a bunch of crazy stuff. You don't have to figure it out on your own, you can ask for help from other people in your life.

But seriously block him. Don't feel obligated to keep in contact. You're not responsible for his mental health.

Well, all things considered.

LinkedIn probably has a higher grade of humans than Tinder does. I say just be straight forward and tell him that you want to move to another platform. Lol, he knew what he was doing.

She wants to act single but wants what you provide. It's time to tell her to either commit entirely or leave. Demand an answer right then or you will make it. Then see an attorney to be protected.