Do not hold things lady hostage to your emotions. Sounds like she needs to block you. These are words that should have been said before you left.

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yes i get what you are trying to say. From what I know about her she has experience with men trying to get something from her. And also, it happened few times when we were in bars/clubs that when some men approached her and made a move on her she froze and wasn't able to do anything about it. I'm not blaming her for anything because she has been through some traumatic stuff and that's why she freezes up. But that makes me even more worried, what if he makes a move and out of fear or something she won't be able to defend herself? I know I'm probably just overthinking, probably I'm just overprotective. idk

You didn’t do anything wrong! You told her you had a nice time and would like to see her again. That was perfect! That’s why I say it’s about her and not you.

You didn’t do anything wrong!

Why don’t you ask him to go talk with his phone company so they can recover the deleted messages? That way you can read them

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In my defense she is very hot. But anyway, yes I know the way she has acted is kind of concerning. The weird thing is that this is the only type of girl I’m actually attracted to. I love the uncertainty and unpredictability.

Is it a red flag that she said she loves the fact that I’m very mysterious and that she can never really tell what I’m truly thinking when I’m with her?

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I would hate to get this text. Leave. Her. Alone.

I wouldn’t say it sounds horrible. Challenging not horrible. Mental illness is an explanation not an excuse. So you are allowed to be mad. If someone unintentionally hurts you then you are justified in still feeling hurt. We learn to live with a lot of regrets in life. To me this would be a big regret for him to live with. I don’t see how he could live with this regret and not be angry or resentful or even unfaithful. You sound like a good and loving couple, so it’s not easy to just say “break up.” But it feels like that’s what I want to say.

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Yea i realized what i did wrong and i'm still mad at myself. i screwed the entire thing and she was so sweet

Well, I'm not sure what else to tell you...

You say you were a bad person (i'm assuming you fucked up somewhere, sorry If I'm wrong here), she left for a month as a temporary split, then you changed and got back together.

Does this imply the "well, I fucked up once and she took me back, so I should forgive her fuck up and take her back?" kind of feeling for you? Or do you feel different from this?

I honesty have no idea why she's being so indecisive, considering you describe her (from my point of view) is proud and very "self-reliant", when she should be able to make a more "progressive" choice rather than "beat around the bush"

Either way, I'd say it'll be really difficult to get back to where you once were, before this incident happened, and truthfully habe no idea of that can be reached again. How do you currently feel about your trust in her, and her trust in you?

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Dudes are hitting on women on LinkedIn now lmao.

No place is safe.

I need to message a girl DAMNNN SHAWTYyy. I like a woman with 10 years of experience business intelligence.

But on a serious note asking him if he would like to talk someone more informal such as snap or text messages would not be unreasonable.

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It is cruel to tell someone you’re breaking up with that you love them; you don’t or you wouldn’t end it

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>She told me she wants guys who are obsessed with her.

Hell nah brotha!!

You dip, dive, duck, and dodge on those girls.

The moment you stop the chase, and someone else starts, she's gone. She wants the thrill of being caught. Girls like that are trouble.

You want the type of girl who fights to pay the bill on a date. That's the one you bring home to the family.

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