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Just say “LinkedIn isn’t that convenient for me to chat on. Do you want to exchange Insta/Snap/ phone numbers?” (whatever you prefer)

So, you just wanted to rub a little "it's on you" salt in the wound?

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Ask her what she wants out of you.

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Why didn't that conversation take place before breaking up?

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You broke up. Breaking up doesn't need a follow-up text.

Do not send this. I don't even know you, and it made me cringe.

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As a woman if you broke up with me I wouldn’t text you back. I would move on with my life. You made a decision that was best for you now I would do the same.

Tell your boyfriend that he needs to have a talk about that with his best friend before it turns into a habit/pattern that can potentially ruin it for everyone.

She just got here. She doesn’t want to commit to anything too fast and too soon. She wants to go out and have fun and explore her new city.

This likely has nothing to do with you.

OK.. why would she literally make things up about our relationship.. not just small things, for example she completely made up we used to live somewhere else and may have to move away again.. why would someone say that?

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Next time he threatens to kill himself call the cops. You are not equipped to deal with that kind of need. He needs inpatient therapy.

If he is faking he will find out what a bad idea that is.

He needs therapy, then decide what to do about him

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Homeboy got that

"WYD" text and answered the call to battle.

Some people get high on attention. She is obviously one of them. So if you choose to go into this then you are consenting to do things like text her every day and be obsessed with her. The mature part of my brain is telling you it's a horrible choice. And you will never be able to meet that expectation.

To be fair she said it jokingly. But at the same time she said that I should know I want to be in a relationship with her after 1-2 times hanging with her. I said that’s unrealistic. She rebutted by saying that other guys in the past have said they wanted to date her that quickly. I said that’s not me.

at the end of the day who WANTS to work? I get it but we have to and when we first got married I was making $75k a year (base salary) and she's seen me grow to $250k (base) so I know she didn't get into the relationship for the money but one of her friends once said that I had "financial potential" which is now very very loud playing in my head.

I was so insulted from my coworker comment. I am digging into savings to make sure she isn't financially stressed, didn't ask her to contribute $1 more than she did before. So wtf? I got real mad about that.

yikes I didn't even think of the whole lawyer BS.... she has a lot in investments (stock market) some money she got from her mom. When we met her mom used to pay for her entire rent so she def has other ways to support herself than just me working.

thanks for getting back to me, I appreciate it.

There IS always the possibility that she’s still emotionally a child and has crazy expectations for what is important in life. I don’t know her though. My best advice is to just think of it as a learning experience and take whatever positive things you can from it. I’m 26, and the first 6 years of my twenties were all learning about what I do and don’t want in a relationship. I went through a lot of hard stuff, but I wouldn’t be where I was today if I hadn’t been through those events.

Thanks for the perspective. Their band isn’t that big yet but I already know how groupies can be. Any other advice with dating people in bands?

She's playing a game. She wants obsessed guys who text her constantly and ignore her when she tells them that she doesnt want to have contact with them. I think this is more about the attention and less about any attraction she might have for you. Avoid her. Dating is hard enough without playing games.